A wedding shower is an event, generally taken place prior to a wedding, where a bride is thrown a party and often receives gifts. It's also known as a bridal shower. It's an American custom, and is thought to have grown out of dowry practices, whereby a poor family would compensate for the lack of a parental dowry for a bride. Today, wedding showers are informal parties that are designed to be social and fun.
How to Throw a Wedding Shower
- Choose a date that works for the bride, the bride's mother, soon-to-be mother-in-law, and members of the bridal party.
- Put together a guest list, to figure out the venue size
- Search for a place to hold the shower. Locations can be private homes, a room reserved in a restaurant, and other commercial places reserved for parties.
- Pick a theme, or at least have an idea for the theme in order to send out invitations.
- Send invitations. The sooner the better.
- Get party favors together. Figure out fun things to do during the party. Games with door prizes are popular.
- Make sure food and drink are arranged for the party.
- Throw the party and have fun!