Hocking had spent about 800 pounds U.K. (around $1,450) on her wedding dress and booked the reception. Brake's secret was exposed when his fiancee's friend did an internet search for a male stripper for her bachelorette party. She found a page featuring Brake having sex with a stripper on a porn site.http://www.iol.co.za/index.php?set_id=1&click_id=29&art_id=vn20090627061805273C660482

Just weeks before the wedding, one of Hocking's friend was browsing the Internet to find a male stripper for her bachelorette party. The friend came across an adult film clip, which featured Brake having relations with an unknown female. The clip was shown to Hocking, who confirmed it was her fiance and she confronted him about his secret.http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/5549158/Woman-cancels-wedding-after-finding-fiance-was-porn-star.html

Brake admitted to his secret career as an adult film star, as well as lying to Hocking about his weekend trips, in which he stated he was training clients out of town, when really he was shooting adult films. He said that the "sex side is purely for the camera, but Haylie did not understand I was only acting," that he would have stopped had Hocking asked and that he would be upfront with his women in future relationships. Hocking called off the wedding stating she was not sure if she could ever trust a man again.http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/5549158/Woman-cancels-wedding-after-finding-fiance-was-porn-star.html