<![CDATA[How to Save a Marriage - Mahalo]]> http://www.mahalo.com//how-to-save-a-marriage en-US Tue, 2 Jun 2009 05:51:57 UTC contact@mahalo.com contact@mahalo.com <![CDATA[Talk about your problems. Talk about your feelings. Talk about what direction you want your marriage to go in. It doesn't matter what you discuss&amp;mdash;just talk!]]> <![CDATA[Any feelings you might be having (fear, anger, resentment, sadness, shock, uncertainty) are normal. Accept that your spouse, no matter what his or her actions, has the right to feel the same way.]]> <![CDATA[Remember to avoid an argumentative or accusatory tone. Hold hands while you talk; this might seem strange at first but it helps develop a connection, create intimacy and avoid fights.]]> <![CDATA[Disagreements and fights are part of any relationship, so it's okay if your talk turns into an argument. However, if the argument escalates and neither of you are willing to back down, take a break. Resuming your conversation after you both have had time]]> <![CDATA[MSN: How to save a marriage]]> <![CDATA[eHow: How to save a broken marriage]]> <![CDATA[eHow: How to Forgive]]> <![CDATA[wikiHow: How to Save a Troubled Relationship]]> <![CDATA[iVillage: 10 Ways to Save Your Marriage]]> <![CDATA[iVillage: Set new goals for your marriage]]> <![CDATA[About.com: Top 6 Signs of Impending Divorce]]> <![CDATA[About.com: How To Cope When You've Learned Your Spouse Is Unfaithful - - How to Respond]]> <![CDATA[About.com: How To Rebuild Trust]]> <![CDATA[About.com: Improve your health by forgiving your spouse]]> <![CDATA[Newsweek: Forgive and Let Live]]> <![CDATA[Christianity Today: Positive &amp; Negative Words]]> <![CDATA[Christianity Today: The Most (Unusual) Romantic Things]]> <![CDATA[Family.org: He's Driving Me Crazy!]]> <![CDATA[Discovery Health: How to Build Marital Bliss]]> <![CDATA[Discovery Health: Top 10 Marriage Myths]]> <![CDATA[Discovery Health: Marriage and Sex]]> <![CDATA[Parenting.com: 6 Marriage Myths to Ignore]]>