A first kiss can be a nerve wrecking experience, especially if you have no idea what you are doing. Even if it isn't your very first kiss, a first kiss with a new partner can be still be awkward. Knowing the perfect way to plant the perfect kiss will alleviate a lot of tension allowing you to show off your new favorite skill.

• One of the most important things you can do before the big moment is to make sure your lips are soft and moist. You can do this by drinking at least eight glasses of water a day and applying lip moisturizer to dry and chapped lips. However, if you sense the opportunity for a kiss is right around the corner skip the moisturizer. Not everyone enjoys the taste of carmex or strawberry gloss before a big smooch.

• A lot of people are embarrassed to admit they do it, but practicing your kisses can lead to stellar results when the big moment comes. You can practice on a pillow or even the back of your hand. Consider practicing in front of a mirror so you can watch your technique and get a firsthand look at what you'll look like from your kissing partner's point of view.

• So you've kept your lips in top shape, and you've been practicing when you're alone. When the time comes and you're ready to lock lips with your kissing partner, there will be a moment's pause before the actual kiss. That is your signal. You will find your heads leaning just a little as you move in for the big moment. Move slowly to avoid bumping teeth. Relax your lips and brush them lightly against your partner's waiting mouth.

• Depending on the level of intimacy you and your partner are interested in embarking on, you may find yourself faced with the open-mouthed kiss dilemma. To kiss open-mouthed, or not to kiss open-mouthed, that is the question. After the initial pre-kiss, you will both step back a little and look into each other's eyes. That is the deciding moment. Lean in for another kiss, only this time slightly part your lips so that your partner's upper or lower lip rests in between yours.

• Many consider the French kiss to be one of the most intimate and romantic ways to lock lips with a partner. A French kiss is the next step in open-mouthed kissing, and begins when you dart your tongue out to gently caress your partner's lips. As the kiss intensifies and tongues collide in tender, teasing touches, intensify the moment by reaching your hand out to touch your partner's face.

• Start with soft lips never a tight pucker

• Breathe slowly through the nose

• Think slow, soft kisses not hard and fas

• Keep the tongue to yourself on a first kiss unless your partner initiates more

• Add a little fun by gently nibbling their bottom lip

• Kissing is an art form that can be perfected with a little patience and practice. Many people are nervous about their first kisses, even if they've had prior kissing experience with a different partner. Relax, moisturize those lips and lean in for the big moment. If you're ready to take your kiss to the next level of intimacy, consider opening your mouth and taking a gentle taste of your partner's lips. The French kiss takes that delicious taste just a little bit further, and can really intensify an intimate moment.

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• Introduction
• Step 1: Kissable Lips
• Step 2: Practice Makes Perfect
• Step 3: The Pre-Kiss
• Step 4: Open-Mouthed Kissing
• Step 5: The French Kiss
• Conclusion