These days, there are plenty of women in their late thirties and beyond who wish to have a baby. They may have put off children until they established their careers or fulfilled their youthful ambitions. They may have already had a child or two and realize that they are not finished being parents.

There is certainly nothing wrong with this. Mature women are experienced, more patient, and have plenty of wisdom to impart to their offspring. In addition, people are living longer these days, and staying active (and capable of handling toddlers) well into their middle-aged years and beyond. However, it is best to have a clear idea of the potential complications; a bit of extra effort may be needed, as well, in order to become pregnant.

While childbearing is generally safe for women in their late thirties-early forties, thee are some risks involved. Here's why:

1. Older women are at a higher risk for developing gestational diabetes while pregnant http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pregnancy/PR00115
2. Women over 35 are more likely to develop placenta previa
3. There is greater risk of miscarriage
4. A heightened risk for endometriosis exists http://www.amazingpregnancy.com/pregnancy-articles/232.html
5. The occurrence of multiple births, such as twins or triplets, is more common with older women

It may be more difficult to get pregnant, as ovulation occurs less frequently and the lining of the ovaries may not be as sperm-friendly as it once was. Taking the following steps can increase your chances:

1. Have your boyfriend or husband wear boxers instead of briefs, in order to increase his sperm count
2. Do not place any chemicals in the vagina, such as douche or even scented tampons
3. Do not use lubricants while having intercourse
4. Try to have sex at least every other day
5. After sex, lay down and prop up your hips
6. Relax--meditation, stretching and yoga will all help bump up your odds
7. Eliminate cigarettes, alcohol and other drugshttp://www.babyhopes.com/articles/getting-pregnant.html

If you have not conceived a baby within six months, it is time to go get checked out by a fertility doctor. Make an appointment for both you and your significant other, as the doctor will need to determine if one or both of you has any issues that could contribute to infertility. The doctor will speak with you about your situation, probably run a few tests, and work with you to find the best course of action.