When you cast a love spell, you surround yourself and others in a loving energy that can help you find that special someone, or bring you closer to someone you care about.

Love spells should be used in a general, non-manipulative way. They should not be used in an attempt to make someone who is not attracted to you fall in love. Using a love spell the wrong way can seriously backfire, and it is wise to leave alone that which is not meant to be.

The first step is to write your spell. What is your aim? Are you hoping to find romance? Are you aiming to heat things up in the bedroom with your spouse? Write down exactly what it is you are seeking. It will help to honor the moon and the planet Venus, and respectfully ask for their celestial assistance. After your spell is written, add the words, "This spell is for the good of all, may it bring only positive results." Then finish with, "As my will, so mote it be."

The following items will help you cast your spell:

1. Pink candle
2. Rose or other love-oriented incense
3. A blessed oil from a metaphysical store
4. A chalice or wine glass containing water
5. Rose quartz, soil or sand
6. Love related objects such as an apple, rose petals or coriander seeds

Friday night is the best time for love spells, in the hour of Venus (check an online planetary hour calculator for help).

1. Find a solid surface, away from flammables. Outdoors is best.
2. Set up all materials
3. Rub oil on the candle, focusing your energy on it
4. Light the candle and incense
5. Think about your goal, and harness your mental energy
6. Recite your spell 3 times
7. Set the paper your spell is written on underneath the candle
8. Leave it there until the candle has burned out completely
9. Remember to watch all burning materials carefully to avoid fires

Once the spell has been cast, maintain confidence that you will get what you desire. It is your energy that ultimately causes the spell to work, and keeping up the positive energy will help you achieve success. Not to mention the fact that potential lovers are far more likely to be attracted to someone who exudes confidence in themselves than someone who exhibits negativity or desperation!