Have you ever seen a woman walk by and watched the heads of men turn? You know you're just as pretty as she is, so why aren't men's heads turning like that when you walk by?

Men also wonder why some women seem to trail around after specific men. Some people are just sexy and draw the attention of the opposite sex. They know how to be sexy and some of them aren't even trying.

• Don't be afraid to make eye contact.

Believe it or not, it's not that hard to be sexy. Some people do it naturally while others need a bit of a boost. Sex appeal is all about confidence. Those who exude a natural confidence almost exude a sexy aura. Bring the things you love about yourself and explore below to learn how you can be sexy too. To begin your journey you'll need your photo album, a mirror and some toiletries and hygiene products.

Browse through a photo album until you find the pictures of yourself that you love the most and the ones you use to scare the mice (we all have those pictures). Note the differences in the pictures. What makes one your favorite and the other not? Don't just think about how you look, but try to remember how you felt when those pictures were taken. What made you feel so good?

As you consider this, also consider what you like the most about yourself. Do you feel good when you think about that quality? If you had no other quality, would the thing you like most about yourself be a trait worth having?

As you consider the things you like about yourself, take the time to perform some serious hygiene. Soak in a nice warm bath while listening to your favorite music. Be sure to put some bath salts in the water to ease your muscles and provide you with some aromatherapy. Be sure to shave while you're in the tub.

As soon as you get out of the tub, pluck those unwanted hairs. Then, use your water pick to make your teeth look and feel smooth and shiny. Splash on some after bath splash or body spray. Give yourself a manicure and a pedicure. Now, do your hair and makeup and dress in something that is attractive, but is comfortable as well.

You're all cleaned up and groomed, but maybe inside you're cringing a bit? This is the really important part, probably the most important part of being sexy. If you are happy with you, then other people are naturally attracted to you. Even if you have to dig deep because your self esteem is so low, think about that part of you that makes you different. Once you have that thought, hold onto it. It is the thing that makes you sexy.

Being sexy doesn't mean being skinny or wearing a lot of makeup or expensive jewelry. If you ask 10 people what sexy means to them, they will all describe a different person, but it would be very common to say that person had confidence. Having confidence in yourself makes other people want to have confidence in you, or at the very least be around such a positive outlook. Don't underestimate who you are, because no one else is your sexy.