How to Attract an Older Woman

Interested in bagging a cougar of your very own? If you want to impress and attract a mature lady, you'll need to develop different skills and techniques than you may be using with the younger crowd. 

Dating a more seasoned female certainly has its advantages. First of all, she will likely be more confident than her younger counterparts, and that may mean fewer shy and awkward moments. She won't be afraid to answer when you ask her where she would like to eat dinner, and won't act like an insecure little girl. Also, she will likely have more sexual experience than a younger female, which could translate into more excitement and overall enjoyment for you.

Step 1: Have Respect

To win her over, you will need to demonstrate that you view her as more than just a conquest to brag to your buddies about. Don't treat her like your grandmother, but make sure to show the sort of respect that is proper for any lady, regardless of age.

This means doing things like opening the door for her (unless she is ideologically opposed to this sort of thing, of course), looking her in the eyes when you speak to her, and showing a genuine interest in what she has to say to you.

Step 2: Don't Over-Emphasize the Age Thing

Trust me, she is aware of the difference between your ages. Very aware, most likely. Thus, there is no need to remind her over and over again. The topic should be addressed once or twice, to allow both of you to discover the other's point of view on the matter. Then it should be dropped, unless she chooses to bring it up again.

Step 3: Keep Confident

An older woman will probably be secure in her own skin, and have a good idea of who she is. If you act insecure and shaky, like a lost little boy, it may be extremely difficult for her to stay interested in you sexually or romantically. Even if you don't have the same experience, you can still impress her by exuding confidence in yourself as a person. Showing comfort with your own self will make her comfortable around you, and can make up for many years of difference in age and experience.

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