Attraction and love are complex phenomena that have confounded human beings for thousands of years. People have often turned to Astrology to help them understand their lovers, and indeed, perhaps even attract a potential mate. One of the most important things to understand in Astrology is that a person´s Zodiac Sign influences not only their own personality but how well that person will get along with others. If you have found out that you are attracted to a Sagittarius, it is best to first research your own Sign so that you understand how your personalities will interact. This can also give you a heads up as to how compatible your personalities will be, and whether the courtship will be smooth sailing or not. Signs such as Leo, Aquarius and Aries can expect great success in pursuing a Sag, whereas Signs like Scorpio may have a slightly more difficult time.http://www.astrostar.com/love-sagittarius-compatibility.htm

Important things to know about Sagittarius are:

• They adore the outdoors and love adventure.http://zodiac-signs-astrology.com/zodiac-signs/sagittarius.htm

• They are extremely honest, sometimes to a fault.http://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/sagittarius.htm

• They take a long time to commit.http://www.lithuanians.lt/zodiac/sagittarius.html But don´t be afraid, not only are they worth the wait, but as a Sagittarius might say the journey is half the fun!

If you´re feeling especially nervous, it might be a good idea to brush up on some basic courtship skills like how to flirt and how to make someone laugh. When it´s all said and done, you can´t control who you´re attracted to, so you may as well jump in and pursue your archer guy or gal! As with all relationships, the attraction may take some time, but if you just have fun and be yourself, you´re sure to arrive at an outcome you´ll be happy with. And a Sagittarian appreciates nothing more than someone who can have a good time while remaining true to themselves!

So, your Sag has gor your attention. But do you have theirs? Try these ideas to make that crucial initial contact.

1.Get involved in their activities. Whether you´ve met your Sag at the gym or just seen them around town, the best way to get to know them better is to be in the right place at the right time.

• If you go to the same Gym, try out one of the classes your Sag likes to go to.

• If you always see them out on the town for live music, try to notice which bands they seem to enjoy and try to make those concerts as well.

• If you have an overlapping group of friends, start attending social activities with this group more.

Once you´ve become a regular face in each other´s lives it will be much easier to strike up a conversation!

2. Don´t be afraid to impress. Sags have a lot of energy and passion for what they do and admire those who do as well. Be enthusiastic about what you´re doing and who you are and Sag will be naturally drawn to that. (Warning: Don´t go overboard, being proud of who you are and being an arrogant braggart are two different things).

Other great ways to impress Sag:

• Make them laugh.

• Be passionate about a common interest.

• Ask them questions about themselves (and really listen).

3. Become friends. Once you´ve been seeing each other around a lot and making regular chit-chat its time to invite them to a group activity. There´s less pressure if it involves mutual friends but anything you think your Sag might enjoy will do! Just keep the invitation casual and Sagittarians are so adventurous that they´ll easily agree to go along with anything they think might be fun. After a few activities like this, you´ll be smashing pals in no time!

Once you have made your way into their circle you are ready to ask for the first date.

Don´t worry to much about what your Sagittarius will think about you asking for a date. They are so oblivious they may not even realize that´s what it is. However the type of outting you select is key.

• Make sure the date includes something active or physical. Great ideas include going snowboarding, cycling, or rock-climbing. Even if your sag is one of those rare cases that aren´t terribly athletic, the date still needs to include something adventurous, maybe going to a theme park or test driving cars.

• The best policy is to select something that your Sag is familiar with but add your own new twist. If she loves white water rafting, take her on a route she´s never been to, or if he loves hiking try snow shoeing for the first time. This way your Sag will both feel confident in his or her own ability and be impressed by your innovation. And don´t forget to secure a picnic lunch in the raft or pack a thermos of Kahlua hot chocolate.

• Above all, all the previous rules still apply! Be yourself and let your passion show. Have a lot of fun. A Sagittarius is always up for a good time. Even if you feel like things are going wrong, don´t let it get to you. Sagittarians don´t get caught up in such details and if the raft springs a leak midstream they´ll be the first to make a game out of bailing it out and scrambling for shore!

Warning: On your first date, don´t be a stick in the mud, or stick strictly to a routine. If your Sag suggests something that´s outside of your plans or seems a little daring, go with it. They have an adventurous spirit and this is actually their way of showing they are really enjoying themselves!

Once you´ve successfully completed the first date you´ve officially established a potential romantic connection, and you´re ready to continue the courtship!

So you´ve established a romantic connection with your Sag, or at least you think so. And herein lies the most complicated aspect of attracting a Sagittarius, because while you may think you´ve made your intentions overwhelmingly clear, they may be completely oblivious. Sagittarius values friendship over all else, so they have a tendency to confuse love and friendship all the time. But this is also a great aspect to Sagittarius, and because they will ultimately base love on a strong friendship, building your relationship with them will never be a waste of time.http://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/sagittarius.htm However, you don´t just want a friendship, you want to know where you stand with your Sag! So here are some clues:

• Sagittarians wear their heart on their sleeves. They don´t just value honesty, they involuntarily seethe in from their pores.http://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/sagittarius.htm If you want to know how your Sag really feels, just be a little observant. Do they take special notice of you of a crowd? Always call you back? Do you have standing un-spoken Friday night plans? These are all clues that your Sag is serious about you. They´re not the type to lead you on (they probably wouldn´t know how) so there´s hardly a chance that any of these signs are clever deceptions.

• If its come to the point that you´ve invested a lot and you´re still just not sure, don´t be afraid to ask! Sagittarians value honesty and franknesshttp://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/sagittarius.htm, they will admire your candor and give you a straight answer. (Warning: If this point comes to soon, especially for Male Sagittarians, it will make them skittish and potentially frighten them away. So don´t be over-eager.) The flip side to this is that Sagttarians hate mind games. They don´t understand the rules and they will refuse to play. So avoid them at all costs, you´ll get much better results by simply being honest.

Attracting a Sag is one thing, but getting them to commit will truly take some time.http://www.lithuanians.lt/zodiac/sagittarius.html The great thing about it is that you will have a lot of fun a long the way, because when is love more fun when its still new? Secretly Sagittarians must be so committment-shy because they don´t want the thrill of the chase to end. It is part of their adventurous spirit. So here are some things to keep in mind as you grow closer:

• Don´t smother your Sagittarian. Let your relationship with them be light and easy and free. They love being the life of the partyhttp://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/sagittarius.htm (or at least always being near the life of the party) so they will undoubtedly flutter off at social events and other gatherings. Rather than always sticking by their side, try venturing off on your own for a little bit too. Your Sagittarian will ultimately come running back to you to share some adventure they´ve had or new thing they´ve discovered, and they will admire you for maintaining your independence and appreciate their freedom.

• Be ready to have a thick skin. Sometimes, a lot of the time, actually, Sagittarians don´t think before they speak.http://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/sagittarius.htm Nor do they consider (brutal) honesty to be a negative trait. The thing is, what you may find offensive, they don´t consider a big deal at all. They don´t sweat the small stuff. So try not to prickle when they tell you your sweater looks dorky, because the next thing they will be doing is sliding up next to you and telling you that seeing you in that sweater the first time you met is what endeared you to them from the very start.

• Enjoy the ride! Sagittarians are looking for a partner whose ready for a ride to the starts and back, and they need to know you´re up for it! Most importantly just have confidence in yourself and your personality will shine through, and that will be the most attractive thing to your Sagittarius.