Trying to get close to a Gemini? Quick in mind and body, Geminis are believed to be the ultimate social butterfly of all the sun signs as well as the most communicative. A master of vocabulary, Geminis are very curious and want to know everything that's going on in the world around them. Read on for some tips about breaking through their fear of settling into a boring routine to attract a Gemini.

In the world of the Zodiac, those born under the sign of Gemini are considered to be witty, clever, imaginative, adaptable and energetic people that tend to be superficial, impulsive and restless. While personalities differ among Geminis, the steps outlined within this article may appeal to the freedom-loving nature of those born within this air sign.

Those born under the sign of Gemini are extremely independent. They refuse to be pinned down by anyone or anything and despise living by the rules. Independence and freedom is essential to their mental well being. This does lead to what some see as flightiness while they are off exploring new places and making new friends. While Gemini is definitely very generous with friends and the one to ask if you need advice, don't bog a Gemini down with serious emotional problems. Long-term help, support and follow-up depress a Gemini and intrudes on their free-spirited natures. While known as the Zodiac's social butterfly, Geminis also require frequent solitude to recharge their batteries.

Geminis love to talk and learn. The way to impress a Gemini is to be knowledgeable about a particular topic and teach them something new. Books, music, art, politics are all fair game. Make them laugh. Speak your mind. Engage them in friendly debate. Geminis admires honesty and candor. A healthy exchange, even of differing opinions, is a firm foundation for better acquaintance with a Gemini.

Geminis love a wide range of activities. Their main goal is adventure and fun. Early in a dating relationship with a Gemini, it may feel more like a friendship than a real relationship due to their casual nature and lack of romantic displays. While they may seem frivolous, they view emotional displays as risky. Geminis are afraid of being deceived or hurt. Once their trust is broken, chances are it will not be won back. If the time together is not found to be fun, stimulating and enriching, they are quickly off to the next adventure.

Easier said than done. Geminis need partners with quick minds and wits. Those who cannot keep up intellectually are quickly left behind. While they do require love and nurturing from a relationship, even more important to their nature is stimulation and novelty. While they may seem to keep admirers on a string, this is not intentional. Geminis are merely evaluating the situation and potential relationship. Ultimately, they seek an intellectual connection with someone who is basically kind and will encourage their sense of personal freedom.

Geminis are not interested in long, drawn out plans. They are like chameleons: changeable, spontaneous and flexible. Plan a wild adventure, an out of town escapade, take a class with the Zodiac's perpetual student or a party for the Zodiac's perpetual partygoer. Geminis love anything spur of the moment.