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You see a child wearing a harness in a store. Do you frown upon this parental choice or can you understand parents who put them on children?

There are other variations, too, of course, including leashes. I have heard both resentment and understanding expressed for children wearing some form of restraining device. How do you feel about them? Would you ever use them on your own child?
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unwirklich | 2 years, 1 month ago
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I'd say it depends on the age of the child and the way it's done. They make these adorable little back packs that just have a string attached now..that's acceptable.. putting a collar and a leash on your kid.. not acceptable.

http://sfcitizen.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/go8f6366a.jpg

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/53/135142032_e5f27cebbb.jpg

(Those aren't my kids for once.. I just googled to show the cool backpacks I was talking about)

Also I find them only acceptable in younger kids, toddlers. Once a kid is beyond 5 or so you should be able to reason with them why they should stay close to you and they should have the restrain to listen otherwise it should be a disciplinary issue. Past 5 using a leash would show laziness on the parents part and may even psychologically affect the child.

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lidyax2 | 2 years, 1 month ago Report

Cute!

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cherise | 2 years, 1 month ago
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I am not a parent, and so I cannot speak to the question of would I do this.

However, I am sympathetic to the practice. Little kids are wont to run off when you turn your head for just a second. With all the high profile child abduction cases lately, parents have got to be scared stiff. A harness addresses both of these issues. Of course, a kidnapper could just cut the harness. He is more likely to choose an easier target though, I think.

I understand the resentment some people express. It does look like these people are treating their child like an animal. I certainly do not think a child older than 8 or so should be in a harness or have a leash attached to them. For very little kids though I think it is actually a smart precaution.

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jenniferhill | 2 years, 1 month ago
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I have a very strong opinion on this matter, so forgive me if I offend anyone. Now, with that said, I do not agree with the use of leashes on children. That's what we have hands for. I have five children, and have never had a problem with them running away, or wandering off; I simply hold their hand or put them in a stroller or wagon.

To prevent such wanderings, I make it clear prior to us going anywhere that my 5 year old is to stay right next to me with his hand on the stroller/cart or to ride in the wagon. If this rule is not adhered to, we leave immediately.

However, if there ever WERE a time to use a leash on a child, I would think it would be for those single moms who have 3 children all under the age of 5...or another similar situation. I would still recommend against it, but I could see its use in this situation better than 3 adults with one child wearing a leash. When I see 2 parents with one child, walking her on a leash, in my opinion it makes them look lazy.

I also think that the use of a child harness, or leash, gives parents a false sense of security. Too many of them think that the child is safe because of the harness; I don't know about any of y'all, but I have a 2 year old that can wriggle out of any buckle she's been in (including her car seat). Not only could that harness leash be easily cut, a child can take it off!

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wangyip | 2 years, 1 month ago
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As someone who has been 'leashed' when I was young, I think I can say that it didn't really bother me (though to be fair, I was pretty young back then so I didn't really understand what it meant socially).

Of course, as an adult now, I am constantly reminded by old family friends that their first few memories of me when I was young was that my parents had me on a leash. It's fairly embarrassing to say the least.

In that sense, no, I would not use them on my own child. I can certainly sympathize with those parents who have used them because they do not want their kids running around and getting lost (I've certainly done it) but hopefully my kids would be educated and responsible enough to not lose me in the store. On older kids, this probably isn't necessary - they can find their way around and they're smart enough to go to the cash register to wait for their parents / tell a cashier that they've lost their parents.

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dsaldridge | 2 years, 1 month ago
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I think it's very responsible. Children can slip away so quickly. I was in a store once shopping with my 2 and 12 year old sons. My 2 yr. old was standing right next to me. I turned to hold something for my son so he could try something else on, and then the baby was gone. Security had shut down the store and called the police when we heard a giggle. He had scooted underneath one of the huge rolling display tables and hidden. I bought a leash, and kept it on him until I felt safe that he would not do that again. I've never been so scared in my life!

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vicgoodwin | 2 years, 1 month ago
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I was able to raise my three children and take my 9 grandchildren into a mall or outdoor event without a leash so needless to say I am not for them. I think they do make it look like the child is considered to be an animal by the parent. I have held my child's hand when we go out and that kept them safe. The monkey backpack is a much more acceptable method. I would not frown upon that as much.

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charray7 | 2 years, 1 month ago
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I occasionally used the leash concept when my son was little and he would want to run off all the time in a mall or while walking. I remember trying to hold his hand, but he would sometimes still dart away to go see something. Children are so fast and I would have rather looked like my child was on a leash instead of some parents who take their eyes off their child and then they get lost.

I do wish they would have had the more modern "leashes" that they have come out with. I think they are so cute!

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patricecampbell | 2 years, 1 month ago
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If I saw a child wearing a harness in a store, I wouldn't judge the parent. Although I raised a son and have 3 grandchildren, none who have ever been tied to the caregiver, I think the child at the end of a leash is easier to accept than a missing child.

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bklynj | 2 years, 1 month ago
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A leash never, a harness is OK. I don't even think it's about the Parents watching the kids but you hear so much about kids being taken in stores all the time. Noone can say they have never lost eye contact with their kid when out at least once. If the kid did not get taken you are lucky. But if your kid was taken I'd bet you'd wish you had that harness on. I have been in stores and see Parents yelling and looking down the isles for their kids. So what's wrong with it. Go on the Megan's Law website and see how many sexual offenders are in your immediate neighborhood and see what you would let your older kids even do.

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