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Would you go to your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend's wedding?

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easyeboy | 2 years ago
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Yes, as long as they were kind enough to invite me, I'd definitely go. I don't think they would invite such a person who they are no longer with, simply because they would think it would be odd. I think this would be a fun experiment to see how many ex-girlfriend or boyfriends invite their ex. If we broke up on not so good terms, for whatever the reason, I'd still go if they invited me. I think they would definitely have some good wedding cake, and who could turn that down, right? Just to see them get hitched would be great, then I wouldn't have to worry about them thinking about me unrequited again :-) It's the right thing to do, as long as you're invited, just go to it. Weddings like this aren't every day, so I figured that it's good to accept someone's invitation. I'd also be happy for them, as long as they are happy for me!

Reasons why I'd go:

1. Out of respect for my ex
2. Just the fact they invited me
3. Wedding cake, you don't eat that every day
4. Meet some people, who knows maybe I'll find someone new to date
5. Just to know my ex has someone they truly love and it works
6. Unrequited love between us would officially be over
7. We possibly could still be friends
8. It would be the perfect time to send her my belated break up gift
9. I would know in my heart that she no longer cared for me, or at least this proves it
10. My ex probably would throw a great wedding party, so that would be exciting to attend
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sasikrishna | 2 years ago
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One should surely avoid to attend one's ex-girlfriend or boyfriend's wedding because if the bridegroom or bride who marries her or him might have known that she or he is your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend, and this makes an irritable situation for your friend. She or he will surely feel guilty of the situation and the merriness and happiness of the marriage may get lowered due to your presence there.

And also the family members also will not like your presence if they know the issue.

So it is better to avoid it even though he or she invites you.

This is solely my personal opinion.
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gia | 1 year, 6 months ago
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i might if they will invite me. it's my way of showing that i'm happy for them and that i do support them as they enter the married life... besides i'm not that bad to still keep grudges and hatred to either of them just because one of them is my ex.. :) i'm still kind enough to show how i acknowledge them.

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blacklight138 | 2 years ago
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If you were invited, then it shows that they are willing to let bygones be bygones. They want you there, you go, and it shows that you are not bitter, and it could mean that you still have a precious friendship with them, and why would you throw that away?

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greytdogz1 | 2 years ago
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If you have remained friends and the spouse-to-be knows the history between the two of you, I don't see any problem with attending the wedding. There is nothing wrong with friends attending a friends' wedding. The dating part is over, you have both moved on and there is nothing wrong with being happy for the other person and sharing in that happiness.

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silvester | 1 year ago
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Yes if they would invite me, I would love to attend the Holy cause for my ex.

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jasmeen | 2 years ago
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Depends on the situation. If we break up in a nice way, i will come, but if we break up because of infidelity, i don`t think so..Anyway, I am happy for him too

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irishstephen1974 | 2 years ago
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Of course! In fact, to turn the tables, I had about three ex-girlfriends at MY wedding! And I've been to all of theirs too.

It's no big deal, we're all adults. However, I can see how it would be awkward. If anyone is the jealous type, the issue could be a weird one, but again, it's all good. I think once someone is getting married, all feelings should be put aside; marriage is the endgame as far as relationships go, so when one of my ex's got married, I was happy. Marriage effectively puts a stop to any ideas of getting back together, so all the pressure is off!!
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redrockwolf | 1 year, 6 months ago
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I went to my ex-husband's wedding. So, yes. Why not?

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drmatt | 2 years ago
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Yes... and I have... but I can certainly understand not going as well.

I was very happy for my ex and still have somewhat of a friendship. I was honored that she felt safe to invite me (and my current girlfriend).

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rjcflorida | 2 years ago
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Yes.

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christina0906 | 2 years ago
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Personally i think that this would depend on the situation. If you had left things off with your ex on a good note, and you were still friends, then yes I think that it would be okay to go to the wedding if you were invited. I personally have never left off on a good note with ANY of my ex's and would therefore, not go to a wedding if I was invited. I think that in my case I just wouldn't feel right about going, and I just don't think I would go.

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skristoff | 2 years ago
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I did, and I had a good time, because we still had some of the same friends. I think the most awkward part was interacting with his parents/siblings.

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cherise | 2 years ago
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I have been married more than 15 years now, so at this point it would be weird if an X invited me to his wedding.

For what it's worth, I invited two of my ex-boyfriends to my wedding, and they both came. One brought his then-current girlfriend. She is now his wife, and I am friends with her, too. The other's wife was sick, and I was touched that he still came to my wedding.

I suppose it is not normal to invite Xes to weddings, though. None of mine has ever invited me to theirs. Maybe it is because I am the woman, and women get more jealous of that sort of thing, so they didn't want to subject their wives to me?

I knew one couple who had a contest to see which of them would have more Xes at their wedding. I found that extremely inappropriate. Their marriage lasted less than three years.

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ai-ai | 2 years ago
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(Just thinking) If I were not married and I were so in love with my ex, I probably wouldn't go. What for? I would only hurt myself more. It's easy to say things than do it. And it's hard to pretend that you're really happy (congratulating the newly-wed couple, huhuhu) when you're hurt deep inside. But if I were not deeply in love with my ex and he invites me then I would go. I wouldn't come uninvited either. When I was wedded, my freshly-ex attended to my wedding. I didn't invite him personally but he was a choir member so what could I do? I felt he was hurt, I could sense it but men have pride, I know that fact plus men aren't emotional. Hmm, he congratulated me and told me that we would be friends. But the next time we met in school, I greeted him but he never replied. He just kept on walking. I don't know what did that mean. Now, we're friends after over 8 years, lol. I ask him why he never replied to me and he told me he didn't hear me. Ows?
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acastlegirl | 2 years ago
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I think it would be inappropriate to go to an ex's wedding. Whether or not there are still feelings involved, this would not be a comfortable situation for anyone. I really don't see any reason to keep in touch with an ex unless there are children involved. This can just cause too many problems for everyone.

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aakrant | 2 years ago
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It depends on his or her way of refusing to continue the affair.

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vladis | 2 years ago
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OOOOO...yes!!!! I would be the happiest guest! why not? I always talk to my ex..or ex's! It's a good thing! I would dance all night! why not? I mean, my ex is still my best friend! If she is happy I am happy! And I mean it! :)
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