Would you continue dating someone if you discover that they are a "loser"?
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If I found out that it is true, I would make him aware of this. Have a heart-to-heart talk with him and make him open up with me. If in spite of this he will think that I am judging him, then, I cannot do something to make him think otherwise. At least I have done my best to make him open up with me. Maybe it will take time for him to reflect on how he is acting and why or maybe he will remain as he is and think there's nothing wrong.
If the latter will happen then I will cut personal ties with him because I don't want to have a relationship with someone who thinks so poorly of himself and acts irresponsibly.
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What other people consider me or others means nothing to me, my opinion is the one that matters. If I felt he was a loser yes, I would dump him because why would i date someone I don't like? If his friends think so, who cares? More importantly, what sort of friends are those?
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As far as how a person appears to be around their friends or what people might say about them goes, not everyone is exactly the way they appear to be or just the way friends describe them.
But, if the person I was dating appeared to be a loser and turned out to be exactly as much of a loser as everyone thought he/she was once I had gotten him/her alone, I'd probably stop dating him/her.
You can't expect someone to change just because you want them to, so as far as bringing up the issue goes, it's pretty much beside the point. Dumping someone because they're a loser may be judgmental, but it's a practical solution.
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