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2 years, 6 months ago

Would you consider it a big deal to post a pic of someone with their ex-gf's arm resting on them on Facebook, even if the new GF may see it?

What if the photos were pictures from your wedding and you had family and friends from all over the world/country who wanted to see the photos (and some who were unable to come).

I am feeling rather guilty for posting two photos that I viewed as not a big deal. It is ruining a friendship and I feel just awful about it. :(
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sweetaman421 | 2 years, 6 months ago
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In my opinion I don't think this should be a problem. I mean, as much as we may want to sometimes...we can't undo everything that happened with exes. Furthermore, marriage is a big deal and the fact that the pictures will be well received by most, especially those who couldn't come and those who were there and want the memories seems to outweigh the fact that one person may be upset. It seems to me that the new gf being upset has something to do with insecurities on her part, but like I said you can't act like what happened didn't. I don't think you should feel guilty about anything as it does not seem that you were trying to hurt anyone by posting the pictures.
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mysterygirl89 | 2 years, 6 months ago Report

But if it does hurt someone you should consider that.

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silverrain64 | 2 years, 6 months ago
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My first impulse is to say no, but it really depends on the photos. Can you describe them?

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silverrain64 | 2 years, 6 months ago Report

Oops, I can't Answer again, so Comment it is.

Thanks for clarifying. It is tempting to just tell the guy not to worry so much. Exes happen, and it doesn't sound like the photos are exactly incriminating. Besides, unless you tagged him, they're not even on *his* profile. So to answer your question as written, no, *I* wouldn't consider it a big deal.

However... It's also good Netiquette (and in some circumstances, legally required) to remove a photo from public view if the person in the picture requests it. You might have more leeway on this if it was a large group shot, but it sounds like these are informal pics where the guy is prominently featured. Regardless of his reasoning, it would probably be best to humor him and take them down. You have lots of other wonderful photos to share, right?

In case it will help, here's a link to a discussion that contains info on removing Facebook photos: http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=2305272732&topic=3459

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wrg1985 | 2 years, 6 months ago Report

It's a group of four people. The ex-GF has her arm on both the groom and the ex-bf. Not around the neck, just resting on the shoulders.

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mysterygirl89 | 2 years, 6 months ago
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Personally I would hate it...... But if family wanted to see it I would say leave it up for about 2 weeks and then take it down if a love does not like it. They should explain that their family really wants to see it and that they will take it down in 2 weeks. Or the GF can ask for the love to take it down in 2 weeks after the family had seen the picture. I really hope this helps. Good luck!
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1_bad_man | 2 years, 5 months ago
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I would have to say it is a really,really big deal! It happenened to me nine years ago. It nearly cost me a divoce from my wife of ten years. It also caused many,many problems between our families and friends. After nine years,things are just begginning to go back to normal.

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wrg1985 | 2 years, 5 months ago Report

This sounds like more of an incriminating photo as opposed to one where two people who used to be dating just so happen to be present and communicating.

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