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2 years, 7 months ago

Why do I do this?

Why do I always seem to fall for the girl who has no interest in me? This one girl likes me alot but I have no feelings for her, Why is this? Why do I always fall for the girl who has a boyfriend? Why do I wake up hoping this girl I like still find happiness, even if its not with me?
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michelleldevon | 2 years, 7 months ago
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It's human nature to want to conquer, succeed in the face of obstacles, to overcome. It's also human nature to want people to like us. Combine the two, and we often find ourselves intrigued by those who 'play hard to get' or who aren't as interested in us as we are in them.

More often than not, I'm willing to bet if the object of your affection were to return your feelings with fervor, you'd find your attraction to her would wane in the process.

The short version: it's human to want what we 'can't' have.

Eventually, though it seems it might never happen it will, you and a girl are both going to be looking at each other at the same time and see the same thing and feel the same desire.

It's a really magical moment when that happens, and all these times of near misses before it only serve to make that moment grander and more beautiful.

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cherise | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

Awesome answer, Michy! All I can add is an illustration. :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cuJ5oGdzuQM

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fallen_angel21 | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Then maybe it's not yet time for you to find the girl that's really for you. I've been in that situation where the person I like doesn't like me while there are other guys out there who wanted me. I also questioned myself then. But now, I understood why I have to wait for a bit longer before meeting that special person...

Everything happens in the right time. Maybe you're still being prepared right now, emotionally, mentally, physically. Of course, when the right person came, we must be ready for it. Nothing's perfect in life that's why it's up to us to at least make things close to perfect. That's why we have to wait sometimes. We have to be a better person first.

Right now, I'm happy. Finally, the person I've been waiting for came into my life. I know soon enough, that person for you will come too. For now, just enjoy life and love yourself too. ^^

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kaaaaaskop | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

Nice answer :O. This bothers me as well, that I still don't have a girl. Well... Maybe the one I like, but not sure though.

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lgalatea | 2 years, 7 months ago
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It sounds like you might be trying too hard. Girls are scared off by guys who are overbearing. Trust me, when it's the right girl, both of you will be affected by the uncontrollable urge to be with one another. Right now, you are feeling a crush, which just means your brain chemistry is attracted to a particular type of person. When it's love, you'll wonder why you crushed on so many people in the past.

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