That's not entirely a true statement and kind of an unfair question. We don't ALL want sex in a relationship ALL the time. I mean, at some point, yes, it's nice, and if you're with the right person it happens organically.

That said, if you're not ready or just don't want to do it, then he needs to respect that.

There's a lot more to relationships than just sex. There's getting to know the person, you getting to know them, forging a bond and falling in love. There's a lot of things that need to happen before you jump in the sack - and most DECENT guys realize that.

It sounds like you're on the right track at least; you're realizing that guys who aren't worth it only want one thing - and knowing that helps you avoid those dudes and steer towards someone who will like you, who YOU'LL like, feel comfortable with and ultimately make a positive connection.

And who knows what might happen after you achieve that...

I think this is absolutely untrue. There are, of course, exceptions however. It depends on the age, the mindset, and their background. It could also just be a front to seem cool or they may be scared of emotions they are feeling. Sometimes, it seems cooler to act this way, especially to other guy friends. As if you have no attachments, no worries, just have one thing on your mind. However, for most guys, that is definitely not the one thing they only want. I'd say that doesn't even compose a relationship.

Most guys need love, attention, care, bonds just as females do, however males usually show it less. This does not mean it doesn't exist. If you find yourself with a guy who seems like he just want sex, then ditch that relationship. It's not healthy, it's not good for you OR for him. People who act like that don't really know themselves and it's a sort of escape. Still, it's wrong to stereotype all guys this way because, in reality, those "type" of guys are a minority of the male gender.