why am I called JD Hatred?
This is the tale of my trip into and out of madness- alone: http://www.myspace.com/piraceyink/blog
My current goal is to write a book. A self-help book.
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"I personally come to discover that the world isn't hating like it should. I have taken up the goal of understanding this and in a healthy, positive manner- I'm bringing hatred back."
That is quite a challenge and you may be right, you may be wrong, but I am sure the idea of a reformulating and remodeling the way one feels and expresses hatred is not only worth checking out and attempting to complete but might be essential and long overdue.
Hate as a good thing? That just seems on its surface to be so not the right thing to do but when we consider that we all have emotions and all of the emotions we have are valid and have their own right to be expressed then hate is long overdue and it could be the most repressed emotion of all time...Hate needs a way to come out that helps not hurts
Hate is such a powerful emotion and 99.9% of us who have felt hate and expressed it outwardly have found that any common expression of hate is not exactly met by the public and/or the law with open arms. I'd like to see hate get another chance and who knows a refocused and now positive outward expression of hate might be just the thing we need to open up a few doors that have been long closed due to a lack the new sets of eyes that a radically new positive expression of hate might bring.
Can hate be a good thing?
I just love the taste of that sentence, like cherry flavored broken glass.
"Hate= Change. Negative Hate= Ignorance, Regression, Decimation. Positive Hate= Growth, Progression, Improvement. You rarely see a need to change something until you decide you hate what you have. The key is to harbor positive motivations for this and direct it from there."
Hopefully this reformulation of hate by being in your hands is in the best hands for the job because it cannot go without saying that hate as we know it will just not do and the room for misuse of a project like this, the potential for the manipulation of the weak minded, and the perceived justification for same old same old expression of hate might be found in here by those choosing to to twist the motives.
but you're right if Timberlake can bring sexy back, then you can bring hatred back... carefully
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M$I'm a passionate person, and you sound like one too. We get worked up over injustices and wrongs that shouldn't exist. We hate the fact that some people can walk all over others and suffer no consequences. We hate the imbalances in life and feel the need to express it, and influence the ones we can.
It takes a strong mind to see every shade in life, from pure black to pure white and all the greyness in between. It is indeed acceptable to hate some things in life and work towards fixing them. It takes strength to go against the grain and to stand firm in your convictions.
In fact nearly everything in life can be seen in terms of the things we hate, even if they are by hating the absence of goodness like reason or love or empathy.
I hate spammers. I want to be a 419 eater but I'm scared of doing it badly and getting burnt myself. I hate the way they prey on the innocent online and old people and kids. I hate the way companies use spam to advertise. .... you get the point. My hate directed at them means I help the people around me avoid them! I teach them about spammers and scammers and impart my knowledge and experience in the desire to help. I still hate them with a passion......but I help at the same time, the hate doesn't consume me at all.
You are also a discriminating person. You have strong values and are not shy in stating them. I discriminate. It's not a bad thing, its a good thing. As long as I discriminate on matters that count ( I dont associate with criminals for example but I don't discriminate on the basis of skin or clothes or how many tattoos someone has - my daughter will be a work of art I'm sure, she loves her ink ).
As long as we use these emotions and values for good then it's good to hate the things we hate ... if you know what I mean. Sure it's a broad generalisation but life isn't made in little boxes with labels on them. It's made up of strange events, unpredictable consequences, boring bits and our emotions. So I say be strong in what you're good at and if you are good at hating the things that are wrong in this world, then go for it!
And JD Hatred, the only thing I would ask is that you use this emotion with empathy and understanding because without those feelings you will become a sad lonely person in the end....
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M$
oh, well actually I thought you did embrace love and such, I must have not explained it correctly.
no... I think you were clear, I should just stop multi-tasking while reading... heh
Your under the mistaken impression I don't embrace love and sadness. And truly, one of my many motto's is "I hate because something is terribly wrong with the world."
One of my personal ego triggers is doing good by other people, and not to the point of needing everyone to know. I would like credit some day for being a helpful person on a national or even global scale. There are some out there that I want to help anonymously, like my last true love, an end I have no idea how it happened, but it did. I still behave as one truly in love with her despite not knowing how she feels in return. I believe I wouldn't care how she feels, because I simply want her to be happy... with or without me. It has led me down a path of anonymous kindness. I may never take credit for it in fact.
And I would hate to see her hurt. I believe we all say lines like that. "I'd hate to see..."
The point of my mission is to influence positive instances of this into taking action, because just sitting there, hating that something bad may happen- then doing nothing to preventing it... THAT is unhealthy. Apathy is the enemy. If you can change something so that unhappiness is unrealized... shouldn't you?
I hate that you had to go thru hell - I don't wish it on anyone, however, it takes an incredibly strong person to come out the other side wiser and a better person for the experience. You're an intersting fellow and I'm looking forward to seeing your future posts.
As a side note, I've heard you mention a few times that you're a tattoo artist. I'd love to get some work done with you - I think that would be cool to be tattooed by a member of our Mahalo community. What styles do you do? Traditional? Eastern? Comix? Perhaps grafiti style? I'd love to see your work.
Fortunately, travel is not an issue, I work for an airline, so I could come to you. We'll discuss.
Does your past influence your art?
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M$
P.S. I'd totally buy your book.
I'm a portrait artist. I do all kinds, but personally, my portrait work is best.
http://www.myspace.com/forceofhatred
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M$
Look here is how I see it JD. Even before I took speed-reading classes, I read fast. I skim through stuff. I look at sentences, paragraphs, and sometimes-whole pages if I am reading a prospectus. When I scan your name it is easy to switch the t and the r around. I assumed it was intentional to get attention.
kucklehead... heh
nice pull on that. I appreciate the criticism. And... I do have it figured out... ultimately, it isn't about hate... it's about the existence of emotions that we either neglect or over use. Hate being the most vilified and one that I am most prone to, has become my mantra. I intend to wear my feeling on my coat and make them present as healthily as possible.
I did not get to read your post at Myspace yet, but I agree with everyone here. You seem to be so unique and in touch with your feelings. It sounds like you have learned alot about yourself and life and that never ends. We continue to learn as life goes on.
You are a refreshing addition to Mahalo. I love reading your questions and answers!