While growing up, did you share a room with a sibling/other family member? Do you think this is a good thing or bad?
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I think that what is lacking today in society is emotional maturity. People who should have matured at around 13 or 14 aren't maturing until around 16 or 17 nowadays. What's slowing it down you say? Not having to SHARE for one. Sharing a bedroom, sharing chores, Sharing caring for an animal or an animal's grooming, feeding, etc. Children need maternal type tasks given to them, and sharing a room is maternal. It makes them bond with another human being after all. Hopefully, the bond is a good one. I do say limit the bond to the same sex. The only reason I say this, is because children are curious, and experimenting with the boys key on a girls lock is natural if you let those 2 share a room (plus it's illega to let boys and girls sharel in some places hehe). Awe heck, I won't even let a boy and a girl go into a bed room alone together, or if they do they get a holler from me to come right back out. I witnessed first hand, just how curious kids are while watching relatives spending too much time in a bedroom alone with each other. EWWW I don't ever want to see that again. Thinking about Uncle Daddy scenarious gets me all naseous. LOL
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M$I think it's good for siblings of the same sex to share a room until they are 14 or so. It's less lonely.
I do not think it is good for siblings of the opposite sex to share a bedroom, ever.
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M$I didn't get my own room, room (as in not a closet) until I was 17 and I moved out on my own shortly after.
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M$Actually i think it develops some neccessary innocence and not view all females as sex objects.
And teaches us to love . a kind of innocent love thats beautiful and un contaminated
This kind of love beyond sex is Much needed for all relations even Spouses
And hey i dont say sexual love is not beatiful i love it and its extremly........
But .........
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M$I have five children. My daughters are now grown, 25/23, but they shared a room for almost all of their younger years. When I had more room, I had them split up and they were upset. So that became a playroom! I still have three at home, 14, 11, 9. My two sons, 14/11 share a room and they are like night and day. One messy, one neat. However, I hear the conversations they have at night and it's just amazing. It's bonding time.
Kids don't need big houses with huge rooms by themselves. They need family. Now with economic times as they are, this is happening because people can't afford big homes. I am a single Mom with three at home in a small home and we love it. We have our "space" but most of the time we just hang out together.
Big thumbs up for shared space!
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