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What's the best way to dump a girl I have no respect for?

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darcy logan | 3 years, 4 months ago
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The nicest way possible with no insults and reassurances that it was just didn't do anything wrong, it just didn't work out.

Remember, girls talk. You dump this one badly and she'll tell all her friends and could ruin your chances with the next girl.

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glaspell | 3 years, 4 months ago
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Agreed with Darcy. No corny lines like "it's not you, it's me," and no Jerry Springer-style name calling. It's best to be direct and say it's not a fit, thanks for the fun times (there must have been some at some point) and wish her the best of luck.

Even though, and almost especially because, you don't respect her, it's important to be decent and respectful as you part ways, without beating around the bush and then REALLY making a mess of things because it ends with some heated fight.

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jduvall | 3 years, 4 months ago
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Here's some tips for "How to Break Up Gracefully" from WebMD

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helenangel | 3 years, 4 months ago
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I agree with previous responders that you should not be mean about it. However, I don't think a "short but sweet" would be doing her service. If you care about her, you may want to gently tell her why you have lost respect for her- this could genuinely change her life for the better.

Speak the truth, but speak it kindly. You can be honest without having to be mean about it. She will appreciate the honesty and you won't have to worry about her pining over you or wanting closure (which is what will happen with a generic 'it's not you, it's me' or other answer that girls know is a complete lie).

Feel free to click on the sources below for some research that supports this. Hope this helped!

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k3vin187 | 3 years, 4 months ago
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If you have no respect for her than only hold yourself to your own standards not hers. Keep it short and simple, walk away and then turn the page

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gfors | 3 years, 4 months ago
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First of all, if you don't have any respect for her, I'm wondering why you care enough to get advice about breaking up with her. It's like studying for a test your not taking, sort of...Let's assume then you are trying to make it as easy on yourself as possible. Call her up and say only the following words "I don't have any respect for you, we are broken up" and hang up and go on with your day. You can listen to the phone messages if you want, but you are only giving her the respect you claim not to have. If you really have no respect for her you logically shouldn't give her another moments thought.

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pastubbs | 3 years, 4 months ago
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Whale if you have no respect for her I'd just cut it short. And let it go no need to get upset about it.

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