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What is the best way to re-ignite the spark in a relationship?

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drmatt | 3 years, 1 month ago
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DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT!

Sorry to shout, but it's pretty simple when it comes to jumpstarting a relationship. Typically, a relationship stagnates because we're not attending to it and just go through the motions. When you don't put energy into your relationship, you just do things by rote. So... do something different!

It doesn't have to be big. For example, for my clients who are finding sex to be a dull routine, I get them to do something different by making love at the foot of the bed. This small change shifts the viewpoint and makes things new again (hence, igniting the spark).

All you have to do is something different in your relationship to get the energy flowing again!

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morriss003 | 3 years, 1 month ago
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The spark needs to be constantly nurtured. Different couples have different ways to reignite the spark, but consider this.
It was getting close to her birthday. I went to the florist and ordered roses, but not for just one day. On first day, the florist delivered one rose. The next day, the florist delivered two roses. The next day, the florist delivered four roses. The next day, the florist delivered eight roses, and the last day the florist delivered a dozen roses.
The effort that you make counts.
Writing a poem is a nice touch. Would your partner like a star named after them? Would they like a gift to charity made in their name. Would they appreciate your doing something special for their parents?
"I love you," is tried but true.
"I'm still absolutely crazy about you," is not bad.
"Where ever you are, that is where I need to be."
"My home is where ever you are."
Words count too.

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megan m | 3 years, 1 month ago Report

Nice idea about the roses! I'm sure your wife/significant other was thrilled!

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