2 years ago
what is emotional incest mother to son?
Most parents have good intentions - and often strive to give their children what they lacked. Most parents feel enormous love for their children, and wish to protect and support them to adult independence.
But something goes wrong. A lonely mother may use a son as an object of her lonely love - and love the child in a way more appropriate for a partner. An immature mother may love a son as a substitute for a partner.
I'm in a relationship with a 34 year old mother of five.She was single for three years before me.The oldest son is 14 years old.I read this the other day and it really hit home.I live a couple hundred miles away and vist her two days out of the week on weekends.Her son is always at her side even when I'm there she dosen't let him leave the house for very long.She sends The other children outside to play for hours and he stays in with mom.At this age he should be doing his own thing I would think.She has refered to him as her little husband in the past.My question is how to confront or bring this out in the open so we can talk about it?She needs to know this is wrong for the sons best interests.
But something goes wrong. A lonely mother may use a son as an object of her lonely love - and love the child in a way more appropriate for a partner. An immature mother may love a son as a substitute for a partner.
I'm in a relationship with a 34 year old mother of five.She was single for three years before me.The oldest son is 14 years old.I read this the other day and it really hit home.I live a couple hundred miles away and vist her two days out of the week on weekends.Her son is always at her side even when I'm there she dosen't let him leave the house for very long.She sends The other children outside to play for hours and he stays in with mom.At this age he should be doing his own thing I would think.She has refered to him as her little husband in the past.My question is how to confront or bring this out in the open so we can talk about it?She needs to know this is wrong for the sons best interests.
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