what extremes will you go through to avoid an argument with your spouse?
When you get angry with your spouse will you just have at it or will you normally disarm it? How?
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Thanks Mike !
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M$If I feel that I can walk out of the room and leave him alone for a few hours without him following me and trying to carry on the argument, then I will do so - if not then I will leave the house and go see a friend until he calms down.
If I feel that what he's said can't be ignored and he shouldn't get away with it, then I'll stay and argue my point.
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so you are saying that you will use restraint according to your mood? I feel like restraint should be used all the time. That the time will come to discuss it rationally. but i want restraint from his side also.
I would still use restraint if I felt it was necessary to stay and argue - I'm very good at arguing calmly! ;)
"Still in Training" Hahaha = Im so glad you took my advice. You see I think from my experience getting upset never solves anything... Eventually he needs to come to that realization because this will push you away and then things will just get worse... I hope u show him this one day... Military or not, people should not act violatle to get there way or let there frustration out on someone else... Tell him to go in the back and scream his lungs out but no need for taking it out on you. =) I cant say I havent done this before but I have learned my lesson and I hope he will realize we are all = and nearly everyone especially his wife deserves to be treated with respect. =)
I hope u remember that advice for a long time... Thanks Mike !
Any Updates please post IM interested to hear what happen...=)
This is how I handled it yesterday. Letting him cool off took alittle time because in the end, the one he was upset with was himself. Now all I have to do is teach him not to blow. he is a new husband and still in training so he still has alot to learn.