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What are some healthy role playing techniques to try with your spouse?
I have read many articles that say married couples who keep sex to a very quick and rushed sense can experience difficulties in their marriage, and stay stressed out as well. Some books provide ideas and suggestions to help spice things up a little more. One said that taking up role playing is a great way to work things out. What are some great role playing ideas for a couple who are not experienced in this act, and might be a little shy about it?
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I think the first key to healthy role playing with sex is to be able to talk openly with your spouse about sex. That alone takes some time. You want to get to the point where you can talk about sex open and honestly. Take your time and enjoy the exciting talks. Share what you enjoy in bed and what you do not, take it further and share each others fantasies. From there, you can begin to talk about role playing. You can surprise your spouse by dressing up like a doctor or a nurse. You can seduce your spouse with a lap dance as you role play being a stripper. Sex should be fun and exciting. Boundaries and rules can be set up amongst the two of you. I can not believe I am going to share this TRUE story, but my husband and I thought it would be fun to put me in handcuffs and tie me to the bed post. They were REAL handcuff's that my husband had from when his Dad was a security guard and I asked several times if he had the keys and he assured me he did. We had a wonderful and playful sexual experience and it was time to get me out of the handcuffs. Well, he did have the keys, he just had not tried to make sure the keys he had worked and they didn't. It was about midnight and I had no clothes on, and was in complete panic. I am visioning the fire department having to come and get these off of me. Nothing we did worked. My husband went to the garage and grabbed a skill saw, came back in the room and locked the door. He started sawing and it was loud, my daughter got out of bed and asked at the door...."What are you doing Mommy? Giving Daddy a Tattoo?" and I said "yep honey! Get back in bed please" (Thank God I had recently given my husband a tattoo, pheww!!! Back to the situation at hand. My husband is sawing and my wrists start burning. From sawing, the metal was burning hot. So, new problem, we could just saw a little and wait, so I would not get second degree burns. Finally the cuffs were off and we still talk about the handcuff experience. And NO we will not do any more hand cuffing of any kind. 
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