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2 years, 2 months ago

"Sweet-heart" - "Honey" - "Hun" - "Darlin'" - When does a term of endearment, become a term of minimization?

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csmagor | 2 years, 2 months ago
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Terms of endearment should never be used in any sort of power relationship or in the workplace. They should only be used for people that you are close to and for whom you would normally express affection.

When a male boss refers to a female employee with a term of endearment - it is demeaning and sexist (older bosses who feel paternal towards their employees can be excused)

When a male says uses a term of endearment when talking to a female co-worker - it is disrespectful and sexist.

However, there are cultural issues here. People from certain parts of the United States are more prone to using them than others - so it needs to be taken on a case by case basis. I think it is pretty obvious when someone is aiming to cause offense.

If it sounds like something Sawyer would say, its probably not appropriate.
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toric | 2 years, 2 months ago
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Terms of endearment should really be used only for those whom you are endeared to. With that said, everybody else who uses these terms is wrong, but they may not be trying to be disrespectful. It depends a lot on your point of view, who's saying it, and under what condition it's being said. I would be really up in arms and and take offense if my boss came in one morning and said "hey hun" I would halfway be expecting him to ask me whats for breakfast, not to mention I would surmise he lost his mind somewhere between his home and work. Now waiters/ waitresses will address me as "honey" and "darlin" but in that case I would expect that a lot of wait people may talk like that and I don't get offended or feel minimized It really has to do with peoples demeanor and what you expect from them.

It's like when some says dude to me. I am not a guy, but it's just something their used to saying.

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