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M$2 June 09, 2009 04:48 PM

How powerful is humor?

I just answered what I thought was a "touchy" question regarding the humor of chemo brian. http://www.mahalo.com/answers/humor/does-anyone-besides-me-think-chemo-brain-can-be-funny
and I began to think about the power of humor. Is the power of humor as great as the power of positive thought when you are ill or injured?
Why does our society frown on people who make light of something as serious as cancer? Are there still areas of thought on this that are considered taboo? I know there have been numerous books written on the subject, but what are the rules of poking fun at yourself?
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June 09, 2009 05:12 PM
Humor is DEADLY. Be careful...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gpjk_MaCGM

Now for something completely different:

Humor is subjective... YOU might find something funny at the time, but others might not. That is healthy for YOU, but not for others.

The power of humor to heal? Look at Patch Adams and the Gesundheit Institute. Amazing powers to heal...
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June 09, 2009 05:28 PM
@drmatt, that's my favorite MP skit! Would you ever encourage someone to make light of a serious illness? Do you think it helps?

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June 09, 2009 05:44 PM
Oh! Hell yes!

Humor shows me (as a clinician) that the client is hopeful if they use humor about their own illness (depression especially!). Laughter actually releases some great drugs into the body. Try it!

Now... making light of someone else's illness is something different. Again, humor is subjective, so you might be taking a risk.

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June 09, 2009 04:57 PM
Strong enough to "knock your socks off".

AND "If I wasn't laughing, I'd be crying." is my motto. However, everyone thinks I'm nuts when I do use laughter in serious situations.

I think for most the humor line is drawn at death; specifically tragic, unexpected death. Here people are not tolerant of Humor.
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June 09, 2009 05:01 PM
Good Humor, man, is when you feel better after laughing.
Evil Humor is when you feel nervous after laughing.

Feel better = positive effects (mentally, physically, socially)
Feel Nervous = negative effects (illness, loss of friends, depresion)

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June 09, 2009 05:06 PM
Humor is really powerful. The laughing makes positive results in the body.
It is a special gift to find humor in every situation. I am glad that you are such a blessed one.
From my memory, I read it somewhere,you have a great chance of healthy long life if you can use humor

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June 09, 2009 05:21 PM
"Laughter is the best medicine"
I use humor everyday as a goto coping mechanism, without it I'd be lost.
I can find humor in anything even if its just "This MUST be funny to someone",
If I can't laugh whats the point.
Sometimes this gets me into trouble but that helps me define to me whats appropriate and whats not.
Humor is helpful to everything.
I rate on a scale of 1 to 10, humor at 10, a gift to help lifes struggles a little easier.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=glloKOyoybE
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June 09, 2009 05:28 PM
Humor is the best medicine! These days I find the ability to laugh at myself is a skill I'm glad I have.

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June 09, 2009 06:12 PM
0) Great chart, love it! :)

1) The power of humor generally

I think to paraphrase what Keynes said about ideas, "humor can be dangerous for good or ill". It can be one of the most powerful, life-affirming and positive things that there is. It's how people survived and undermined repressive regimes for example. The Soviet Union had some of the best jokes ever.

But humor can also be extremely wounding and destructive when used to belittle and undermine people. e.g. Racist jokes.

2 Humor when you are ill or injured?

Yes it can be powerfully postiive, and it can go hand in hand with positive thinking and a resilient attitude. And in a scenario where there is actually no way to win, it can be part of transforming a painful situation into one of peace and acceptance.

On the whole it must be better than being depressed, wallowing in misery, being angry, or in denial. Though angry might just be useful sometimes.

Could humor also be used in a way that is destructive? Probably. I can't think of any examples right now, but it could go hand in hand with defeatism or negativity I'm sure.

3) Why does our society frown on people who make light of something as serious as cancer? Are there still areas of thought on this that are considered taboo?

Humor can be hurtful, it can belittle, and it can be inappropriate. It doesn't have to be, but it can be. Esp when you are one of the powerful, fortunate or the majority, making fun of the powerless, unfortunate or a minority.

4) What are the rules of poking fun at yourself?

Why ask me? I'm supposed to be an expert now? :)

Seriously though, there is sometimes a fine line between seeing the funny side of things and being insensitive towards people who might be hurting deeply. And between making fun of yourself and putting youself down.

If you have respect for yourself and others than your humor will probably naturally be appropriate and be well received. If not, it probably won't.

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June 09, 2009 10:45 PM
No powerful

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