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nurseannie
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BEST ANSWER  decided by votes   |  nurseannie  |  May 05, 2009 11:06 PM
As someone who has been in healthcare for over 23 years, I don't believe it is unethical at all. The problem with adoption is that many people are looking for newborns, rather than older children. Surrogacy can work, but there are times when it does not and the surrogate does not want to fulfill her contract and keeps the baby. What I do find unethical is people like the "octomom" and her doctor who inseminated her. I think the doctor should have his license revoked, and I can imagine down the line the gynecological problems she will have, if she doesn't already. I don't think her doctor had the right to inseminate her knowing her situation, and she definately wasn't of sound mind to even seek insemination in this case.I think her situation was way out of hand and unethical, along with any other cases like this where so many embryos are implanted at once.
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I am a nurse for over 23 years

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morriss003
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morriss003  |  May 05, 2009 09:34 PM
I don't think that it is unethical at all. It is natural and human for a woman to wish to carry her own child to term. I think that this is a separate issue from the need for more children to be adopted.
Surrogates? A trickier problem.
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drmatt
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drmatt  |  May 05, 2009 09:38 PM
Anything can be considered unethical. Ethics is a personal choice...
Voted as best: xds
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bunnyphuph...
bunnyphuphu  |  May 05, 2009 10:20 PM
I agree with matt!
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irishstephen1974  |  May 05, 2009 11:49 PM
Right on Doc...
venusarms
venusarms  |  May 05, 2009 11:51 PM
There is great wisdom behind that mustache.
drmatt
drmatt  |  May 06, 2009 01:47 PM
Great wisdom... and a cheese sandwich. Yum!
tracebooks
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tracebooks  |  May 05, 2009 09:50 PM
That's a really personal question. Some people could say yes, it's unethical for the reasons you cited.

On the other hand, perhaps fertility is a problem in the family and she and her husband really want a child of their own blood. Or she really wants the experience of pregnancy, or of childbirth. Not everyone is able to be big-hearted enough to give that up if they have the resources to make it happen.

Any one decision I make can be looked upon as unethical by someone with the opposite values, and this would be one of them.
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