There are lots of reason why there are certain men who are abusive to their girlfriends. The most common reason is the experience they had during childhood. Most abusive men came from abusive parents or guardians who abuse them verbally, physically or sexually.

They may not be aware of this especially if they don't seek any counseling or psychologist to help them handle this kind of attitude. They want to seek revenge and subconsciously they are trying to hurt others as a revenge. They want to show that they are not helpless that they are superior and they want to get back at those who have molested them or hurt them but they are not aware that they are hurting a different person.

Others who are abusive but has no history of abuse, they are just plain egoistic and want to show their superiority over a female. Some men also physically abuse their girlfriend because of some triggering factor like constant nagging of their girlfriends. This can cause them to lose their temper and control and hurt their girlfriends during heated arguments.

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