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Should schools be able to tell a male students to dress "more manly"?

Jonathan Escobar is a 16 year old boy that wears wigs, makeup and girl's shoes and was told by his Georgia High School that he must dress more manly or consider home-schooling. Jonathan says it is an infringement on his creative expression. Do you agree with the school or Jonathan?

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twinpairs | 2 years, 7 months ago
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This conundrum, between the schools right to have a dress code and an individuals right to self expression, is worthy of pondering. They both promote positive outcomes. Obviously a school should be able to have a dress code. For example, you must wear clothes. We also value self expression. We encourage creativity and protect the individuals right to be different. None of us expect everyone to be identical. Each person's strengths should be promoted.

North Cobb High School's dress code, "prohibits students from wearing clothing that may contribute to a disruption of school functions". The school is saying that Escobar's "style of dress had caused a fight between students at the school". They gave him a choice, conform to the dress code or consider home schooling.

Escobar states that how he dresses reflects who he is and he doesn't want to dress more "manly". He has chosen to quit school instead of conforming to the dress code. He says that he wants, "to get the message out there that because this is who (he is, he) can't get an education."

I side with the school in this situation. They have enforced their policy. After all what good is a policy if it is not followed? Why have one at all? They are within their rights to ask him to conform or leave. Escobar had a choice and he chose to quit. It was his choice and not "who he is" that is denying him an education. If he doesn't agree with the dress code then he should have the policy reviewed and try to have it changed. Conforming is part of living in society. This lesson was learned in the Sixties. Rebelling against the establishment did not work. A wise person will conform to society in order to transform society. I hope Escobar's notoriety does not keep him from learning this valuable lesson.

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albanian | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Schools are allowed to insist on school uniforms. Schools are allowed to have conventional dress codes. Schools can prohibit offensive slogans on clothes, and indecency in general.

This appears to be something different, singling out this particular student because the school doesn't like his choice of fashion. This is not legit, the school is clearly wrong. If he is not violating a specific and rational dress code he is right and the school is being arbitrary. Or, perhaps being prejudiced, one can only guess at the school's motivation.

If wigs, makeup, and feminine shoes are allowed for female students that makes the school's argument even weaker. Rules should be the same for all, when practical.

I support the student in this.

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windowshopping2 | 2 years, 7 months ago
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So a student, who appears to be well-liked (given the facebook support which he is garnering and the t-shirt protest which is being planned), who is not a disciplinary problem, who, for all we know, might be a very intelligent young man and good student, is being singled out by the administration for dressing "in a disruptive fashion". I'll grant you that a pink wig on a girl or a boy would divert attention, but I won't grant that it is "disruptive" to a point that other students can't study or pay attention to their teachers.

The problem, the lesson that everyone should be coming away with here (in my opinion), is tolerance. This young man conforms to all the "important" rules, the rules that ensure he will learn and not interfere with others' learning, the rules that keep him and others safe - yet when others show intolerance or fight, it's this young man who is being "punished". If this young man adheres to the "general" dress code, applicable to both males and females, if he is not treated differently than other students (girls included) in what he is allowed to wear, then allow him to express himself as he sees fit.

Tolerance is the most important lesson we can teach or learn, in my opinion. Tolerance does not indicate agreement or condone his actions, but simply tolerates his choices.

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samid | 2 years, 7 months ago
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There are specialty schools who serve those who are more creative and expressive. They don't have any dress code at all. Kids are allowed to dress any way they want, piercings, tattoos, etc. These schools are great and really go far by way of nurturing the creative side of their students. This kid is obviously ahead of his time and should look into one of these specialty schools and leave the country bumpkins to their ignorant rules.

Creativity should never be stifled in any child, EVER! That same creative mind may some day be the source of a world-saving discovery, medication, or invention. Never stifle the creative mind of a child! We don't need robots. We need kids who can think for themselves and solve problems outside the box, without being told how to think.

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albanian | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

Apparently his family moved from Atlanta to the suburbs, where the trouble began.

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kaaaaaskop | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Nah, everyone should dress how they want, my opinion

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pjmom23 | 2 years, 7 months ago
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The fact that he is wearing girl's shoes and clothing would be very distracting to teenagers already facing the hardships of growing up in this era of confusion. Our society teaches too many conundrums are the norm. Bad is looking good. Boy looks like girl. Tolerance has gotten a little too out of hand. Everyone cannot please everyone else all of the time. I am glad he is wonderfully creative person who has the parents or caregivers who can give him the creative outlet he needs at home. However, I don't condone his behavior. In a public school his behavior intrudes on the other teen's choice of going to school in a peaceful and easy to learn environment. I also think he pushed the envelope and wanted to be singled out, by his behavior.

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kineticcutter | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Let the kid do what he wants. It's none of my business and none of anyone elses.

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jillbeth | 2 years, 7 months ago
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I side with the school.
Schools have a obligation to monitor the appearance of the students and ban distracting attire, and I would think that a young man in a wig, make-up and high heels would definitely be a distraction!

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jillbeth | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

My bad. Sorry ;P

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albanian | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

He is not wearing high heels, according to the article.

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stanar | 2 years, 7 months ago Report

In the embedded video, he is wearing high heels!

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randync | 2 years, 7 months ago
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I think if the school has a dress code then it should be enforced. If not, then they should leave him alone. He should be treated no differently than any other student.

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