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Should people wait after they are married to have sex?

What a would be the benefits for people, for relationships, for society in general if more people were to wait until they were married to begin having sex?
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muhamed1stephanie | 6 months, 4 weeks ago
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it proves its love when people r ready to wait till they r married,and by the way im 24 and still virgin waitin on my soon to be wife.
it really proves to us ,how much we r in a true love,and still we can do it.

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ranjanm | 7 months ago
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A human is product of his own thoughts, he defines good to bad and vice versa by virtue of later, the question one must answer is not this, but to himself on what is his take on SEX individually & the partners take on it and I guess you have an answer there.

Society is accumulation of varried mindsets, and I guess one must look at his comfort.

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siyue | 6 months, 2 weeks ago
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Most definitely. People should wait until after they are married to have sex. God gave it as a gift for ones that are married to express themselves to each other. If we take it before hand we are stealing and it is a sin. Fornication is sinning against our own bodies. (1 Corinthians 6:18) At Acts 15:29 it lists what we should abstain from including fornication and then it says "good health to you." Even if you don't believe in God He is still right. Just think of all the bad things that have come from sex before marriage: Sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies, marred reputation, your conscience bothers you, you have more stress, there is less respect for you, etc... What is the seemingly good thing that comes from sex before marriage? A lot of people will say it is satisfying your sexual desire, so a few minutes of pleasure but it brings a lot of heartache.
Whereas if you wait you will love your mate even more for staying clean for you. You might even have better sex because there isn't a nagging in the back of your head if you were better than your mate's previous partners or if there are diseases involved. There would be more trust, less diseases, less stress, less people being murdered because of jealousy, less children that only have one parent. I can go on and on about the benefits if people would just exercise self-control.

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ianr632 | 9 months, 2 weeks ago
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In my opinion, if you truly love someone and believe your going to live with them for the rest of your life then it is fine to have sex before marriage. It's your opinion if you want to, and if your comfortable enough to do so. I'm a virgin so I can't give too much advice. But it's all up to you.

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paulette10354 | 3 months, 1 week ago
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If people would wait until marriage to have sex there would be fewer illegitimate children and/or fewer abortions.There would be fewer cases of STD and there would be fewer people feeling used. If people would spend their dating time getting to KNOW the other person there would be fewer divorces because they would have taken the time to KNOW better who they are marrying. When people become sexually involved with each other early in their 'dating' relationship they short circuit the process of getting to know each other. Instead their relationship evolves around the physical and when they become bored with each other they move on to the next partner. It would be nice if in 'sex education' classes that it was taught that our sexuality included not only our physical bodies but the mind and emotions and spirit. It is meant to be elevated to a very special exchange between a man and a woman within the marriage convenant for the purpose for expressing love that creates new life. If you aren't ready for that then discover other ways to express your love in a romantic way that does not revolve around sex.

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davidwave4 | 10 months ago
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The benefits would be that people who know each other are more likely to be able to move and 'work' together better. It's not like people that aren't married CAN'T have that level of connection, but marriage can be the one event that bonds people in a way that makes the sex 'better.' Also, people who are in a monogamist marriage are less likely to contract diseases from each other than from those who are 'loose.' For society, less STDs and more parented families means less societal decay, ie. less gang activity and less violence. Crime reduction would allow the government to redistribute funds to other things like deficit reduction and more school funding. I'm not saying that if everyone waited that the whole world would be fixed, but it would do a great deal of good.

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nitram | 6 months, 3 weeks ago
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Yes, absolutely, at least 20 minutes.

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sandwichlover89 | 4 months, 1 week ago
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Yes I am a traditonalist in that matter I feel that people should save sex for marriage

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amro | 10 months, 3 weeks ago
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IF YOU WILL GET NICE WOMAN
I THINK YOU CAN NOT WAIT

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jenningseddie | 21 hours, 5 minutes ago
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Well people would miss out the fun if they wait long before doing it. Using some sex pills would bring the mood.

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LukeTNI | 8 months, 4 weeks ago
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I personally believe in waiting until after marriage, purely down to religious conviction.

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mariane | 8 months, 2 weeks ago
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There is no need to wait to be married. Marriage is not guaranty that everything in the future will be fine and for that why would someone wait! Listen yourself, that's the best!
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bullitshot | 11 months ago
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Not having sex before marriage is in my opinion purely a religulous thing.. you should watch this movie of Stephen Fry. He explains it quite good :)
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prynzerryz | 10 months, 1 week ago
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Many people think that sex before marriage is just fine because of the influence of this generation. but if you will follow the biblical rule, it is not allowed. It is because sex is a holy thing. A gift from God for a married couple. Anything that is holy must be respected. if it is done outside marriage, It is a dishonor to our God. It is a blessing if it is done in a right time but is a curse if done outside the holy rules. Which will you follow...the trends of this world or the the words in the Holy Scriptures given by the creator of this world?think of this my friend...

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kayfac | 2 months ago
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first of all it is biblical to wait for marriage before sex this is because sex is basically meant for marriage. it is a bond that edifies and satisfies both husband and wife. waiting for marriage till after sex is also pure and will ensure more respect in the marriage.

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lelouptueur | 10 months, 2 weeks ago
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People often associate not having sex until you're married with religion. Most times that may be accurate, but there could be other benefits to it.

Sometimes people get too caught up with passion in a relationship. They have a sexual connection and it can often be blinding. The couple may think that they have a connection on a deeper level than just sex because of it. However, after a while when the sex gets old (it may take a while), some people find out they really have nothing in common. They may even think they knew one another better than they really do and soon realize how wrong they were.

In terms of society and how it could benefit that aspect the obvious would be a much lower rate of unwanted children. Some would say it helps with morality too, but that's a matter of opinion. I'd say it isn't so much about actually being married, as it is knowing the person you're with and making sure you have a connection with that person.

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daboss | 2 months, 3 weeks ago
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It actually depends on the people, some people have sex before marriage and some people have sex after they get married

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kannoos75 | 10 months ago
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It is totally up to you.. when it come to sex i will say be safe ..

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maccole83 | 1 month, 2 weeks ago
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some people do wait thats a good thing

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bitbit | 11 months, 1 week ago
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This is a subjective (pertaining to or characteristic of an individual; personal; individual: evaluation,) question. I believe that each person has to decide for themselves what is or is not appropriate. For some individuals sex prior to marriage would go against religious or moral upbringing. I believe that there is a special joy in "saving" sex until after marriage. The anticipation of the mystique of the sexual, sensual, soulful encounter of sex on the wedding night can heighten the experience. Also when both the bride and groom have saved themselves, then there is no one else for whom either can compare. You can learn together all those little things that arouse you.

I think often times young people have misconceptions of sex because of the media and the unrealistic portrayal of sexual encounters. Sex is not always wine, roses, chocolate covered strawberries and lovely music. Sometimes it's just rough, quick and over.

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rumanaafrida | 11 months ago Report

yes, u r right, the issue varies from person to person. anyways, you answered this question rightly ...good job.

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deapeajay | 6 months, 3 weeks ago
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If you understand marriage to be a picture of Jesus Christ and his bride - the church. Then the husband is filling the role of Christ and the wife is filling the role of the church. Christ, the son of God, died for his bride (the church) by shedding his blood as payment for her sins against God the Father.

Sex represents this by the blood that is shed when a woman's hymen is ruptured (popping the cherry). Just as the church is united with Christ through the shedding of his blood. So a husband is united with his bride.

Just as Christ did, a husband is meant to give himself entirely over to serve and protect his wife, even dying for her, and that vow is sealed in blood (sex). If you simply do whatever is right in your own eyes regarding sex, it ceases to represent any sort of real blood-bought commitment to your bride and it simply becomes "just sex".

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judyspics | 4 months, 3 weeks ago
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I feel that everyone should have a 1 year rule. The first three months is a getting to know you stage of like and dislikes and basic compatability. Months 4-6 the relationship goes through a comfortable stage and true personality starts to shine. In the end of month 6 your new friend has more than likely shown what likes and dislikes are and how relationships ended and what traits are likely to in this person. If you make it through this and no major disgreements happen, this is good.
In month 7-9, personal discussions about sex and previous partners should be explored. At the 9th month point out of respect for each other if this is getting serious getting tested for sexually transmitted diseases should be discussed and done. Included in the tests should be HIV, HPV, Hep B and C should be inclusive along with the other usual tests. If you get this done then by month 12 an engagement and the the wonderful night that only the night the 2 of you share.

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freakinjuliee96 | 4 months, 1 week ago
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Yes, because if they have "problems in bed", then they're gonna have to deal with it the rest of their life unless they divorce.

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tracysoria | 7 months, 1 week ago
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yes they should wait a bit untill they get married.

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gazardiel | 4 months, 1 week ago
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The debate between whether people should wait until marriage is a very long one. It seems that most people in today's society actually regret their first time and wish that they would have waited until they found the right person. Also the ability to abstain from a sexual relationship until you are in a serious committed relationship seems to be lost in modern society. So I feel that while a lot of people will not wait until they are married, they will wish they did resulting in less regret as a whole and more lasting, loving relationship.

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