Sometimes, stuttering can be an indication that the person speaking is not telling the truth, yes. (I know because, when I attempt to lie, I'm trying to think ahead, and make up something that sounds good...and I sometimes stutter as a result. D'oh! Fortunately, I very-rarely lie - and that's the truth! - so this isn't often a problem for me.)

However, people can also stutter when they're thinking very quickly, which is why I stutter when I start to get really involved in a conversation. There's also the usual health problems that cause stuttering, of course, and speech impediments, to think about.

Also keep in mind that sometimes innocent people get upset when they're accused of lying. I get very angry when that happens, because I just don't lie very often, and never about anything that's serious. (I outgrew that when I was in my early teens...learned that the consequences are less severe when I tell the truth from the start.) Accuse me of lying about something and I'm going to get upset, because honesty is very important to me.

Sometimes, though, liars will get upset as a defensive reaction. If they can put you off guard by striking back verbally, then they can take the advantage in the conversation and get on the offensive instead of being on the defensive.

If you generally distrust whomever you're talking about in this question, you might consider ending the relationship. However, if you generally distrust pretty much everyone, you might need help because it's not good to be distrustful to that extent.

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