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September 17, 2009 09:58 PM
i married toby on summer 1st i want to have a baby.... what do i need to do?
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Being pregnant and having a baby is a huge responsibility, so as long as you are prepared for being pregnant and you are both ready for a baby, then you could plan to conceive at anytime.
The Two Week Wait forums at www.twoweekwait.com are a great place to ask questions to others who are in the same boat as you.
If you would like to get pregnant, your chances are higher if you have sexual intercourse around the time you ovulate. It is very important that you know your body and keep track of your menstruation cycles (how long between each one) during this time as you will ovulate about two weeks after your period (IF you have regular cycles). There are also ovulation kits you could purchase from your local drugstore to use that will help you detect AT THE TIME of normal ovulation if you are ovulating or not. This website http://www.ovulation-calendar.net/ is a good way to pinpoint when you ovulate based on a normal menstruation cycle.
There are other methods that women will use to look out for when they are ovulating such as keeping track of their basal body temperature every morning and charting on www.fertilityfriend.com. Many women also pay attention to cervical mucus (another reason why it is important to keep in tune with your body) however, that step could be skipped if it is something that grosses you out.
Conceiving a baby is more than just having sexual intercourse for most. It is highly recommended that you prepare yourself and make sure you have a good support system (family and friends). Again, the forums at Two Week Wait are useful in seeing what others are experiencing. Visit the Trying to Conceive boards as well as the Pregnancy boards. The Pregnancy boards will give you insight on symptoms and other experiences that might prepare you for what happens after a baby is conceived.
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But if you want it and you understand the incredible responsibility and the life changing experience this brings and you are BOTH ready then go for it.
There is no normal 'protocol' on this, just do what feels right for both of you.
AND GOOD LUCK when you start trying!!
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i married toby on summer 1st i want to have a baby.... what do i need to do?
how long do i need to wait?
Its year 3 and i got the blue feather in spring i gave it to toby and we got married the first few days have been great but what about a baby??? can you have kids and how lol i need help please!!!! thanks
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| September 20, 2009 12:09 PM |
The Two Week Wait forums at www.twoweekwait.com are a great place to ask questions to others who are in the same boat as you.
If you would like to get pregnant, your chances are higher if you have sexual intercourse around the time you ovulate. It is very important that you know your body and keep track of your menstruation cycles (how long between each one) during this time as you will ovulate about two weeks after your period (IF you have regular cycles). There are also ovulation kits you could purchase from your local drugstore to use that will help you detect AT THE TIME of normal ovulation if you are ovulating or not. This website http://www.ovulation-calendar.net/ is a good way to pinpoint when you ovulate based on a normal menstruation cycle.
There are other methods that women will use to look out for when they are ovulating such as keeping track of their basal body temperature every morning and charting on www.fertilityfriend.com. Many women also pay attention to cervical mucus (another reason why it is important to keep in tune with your body) however, that step could be skipped if it is something that grosses you out.
Conceiving a baby is more than just having sexual intercourse for most. It is highly recommended that you prepare yourself and make sure you have a good support system (family and friends). Again, the forums at Two Week Wait are useful in seeing what others are experiencing. Visit the Trying to Conceive boards as well as the Pregnancy boards. The Pregnancy boards will give you insight on symptoms and other experiences that might prepare you for what happens after a baby is conceived.
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September 20, 2009 04:27 AM
If your are both ready, and can CARE for a baby, you don't need to wait. Even more so it, as it could take you a bit to conceive. (my friend started trying 1 week before her wedding, and she didn't get pregnant until 6 months into the marriage, others could take longer (unassisted) or less it all depends. But if you want it and you understand the incredible responsibility and the life changing experience this brings and you are BOTH ready then go for it.
There is no normal 'protocol' on this, just do what feels right for both of you.
AND GOOD LUCK when you start trying!!
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September 21, 2009 05:21 PM
All I can say is relax and enjoy your marriage. Take away the tension of having to worry about having children. This is your time for each other - your alone time. Believe me, when little ones start arriving, they will really rearrange your time table. Take it easy and enjoy each other. This is something precious. Things will happen when you least expect it. Try and have a baby, but make it a pleasurable task to both of you. No worries. It will come you'll see. Peace!
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September 22, 2009 05:38 AM
Just FYI, ya'll - getting the blue feather and getting married is part of a video game that it appears she is asking for instructions on how to proceed in the game. Harvest Moon. I think she's looking for game cheats/walk throughs.
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