On his/her death bed, your spouse admits to numerous acts of indiscretion throughout your marriage. Can you forgive him/her?
You can leave an optional "tip" with Mahalo's virtual currency, Mahalo Dollars. If you are asking a difficult question that might require some research, or if you'd like a wide variety of feedback, a higher tip often leads to more answers to your question.
M$9 Answers
It would be a long and hurtful process but I am willing to grant him the forgiveness he wants because I am not perfect. Like him I am also a sinner and I have my share of shortcomings too. Maybe I am too busy wrapped up in myself, my career, that in some way I have neglected him that contributed to his infidelity. I will think that it is not only his fault that he was able to do such acts. Nevertheless, I would be thankful that he admitted these things to me.
To forgive and forget is the best thing to show to him how much I love him, til death do us part.
You can leave an optional "tip" with Mahalo's virtual currency, Mahalo Dollars. If you are asking a difficult question that might require some research, or if you'd like a wide variety of feedback, a higher tip often leads to more answers to your question.
M$
You can leave an optional "tip" with Mahalo's virtual currency, Mahalo Dollars. If you are asking a difficult question that might require some research, or if you'd like a wide variety of feedback, a higher tip often leads to more answers to your question.
M$
As for myself, yes. I would forgive her. The fact that her conscience felt enough of a pang of guilt for her actions that she felt she had to tell me what they had done demonstrates that she at least cared enough to mention it. Despite the fact that she had done wrong, it seems as if there would be a request for forgiveness implicit in her confession of guilt.
No doubt I would feel angry and hurt and betrayed when I learned about these acts of indiscretion, but I would stay with her the remaining hours of her life, because turning my back on someone I had once cared a great deal about who was dying is not an action I'd care to have on my conscience.
Soul searching
Personal belief
You can leave an optional "tip" with Mahalo's virtual currency, Mahalo Dollars. If you are asking a difficult question that might require some research, or if you'd like a wide variety of feedback, a higher tip often leads to more answers to your question.
M$
I truly believe that I would have known about (most of) those flings before s/he told me. So...I would have had enough time to get over the hurt feelings.
Intuition
You can leave an optional "tip" with Mahalo's virtual currency, Mahalo Dollars. If you are asking a difficult question that might require some research, or if you'd like a wide variety of feedback, a higher tip often leads to more answers to your question.
M$
My first marriage was so irretriveably broken by the time I found out he cheated on me it didn't really make much difference in how I felt about him. IT was symptomatic of our problems - not the cause.
My second marriage was much more like the scenerio you describe. I thought I was happy every day of my marriage until he walked out on me. Later information revealed he didn't care for me at all. Ouch. I work more on forgiving myself than forgiving him.
You can leave an optional "tip" with Mahalo's virtual currency, Mahalo Dollars. If you are asking a difficult question that might require some research, or if you'd like a wide variety of feedback, a higher tip often leads to more answers to your question.
M$
You can leave an optional "tip" with Mahalo's virtual currency, Mahalo Dollars. If you are asking a difficult question that might require some research, or if you'd like a wide variety of feedback, a higher tip often leads to more answers to your question.
M$
You can leave an optional "tip" with Mahalo's virtual currency, Mahalo Dollars. If you are asking a difficult question that might require some research, or if you'd like a wide variety of feedback, a higher tip often leads to more answers to your question.
M$Especially those that answered the person I know you did and so did I. LOL
You can leave an optional "tip" with Mahalo's virtual currency, Mahalo Dollars. If you are asking a difficult question that might require some research, or if you'd like a wide variety of feedback, a higher tip often leads to more answers to your question.
M$
You can leave an optional "tip" with Mahalo's virtual currency, Mahalo Dollars. If you are asking a difficult question that might require some research, or if you'd like a wide variety of feedback, a higher tip often leads to more answers to your question.
M$
