2 years, 2 months ago
Ok I have layed with the guy I like. Is it wrong if I layed my head on his chest and fell asleep, he is 16 years older than me tho. Help?
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It really depends on your age to be honest. I'll answer it from both stand points, since there isn't enough information.
If you are underage, he has no business creating the situation. In that case, he is an adult and should know better. You should stay away from him. I know when your younger, sometimes being singled out by an older guy is tempting... but honestly there is nothing good to come from it. Do you really want your partner to like younger girls? What will happen when you get older? What type of older guy has something to do with a teenager, not one I'd want anything to do with.
If your not underage, you do what you feel is best for yourself.
If you are underage, he has no business creating the situation. In that case, he is an adult and should know better. You should stay away from him. I know when your younger, sometimes being singled out by an older guy is tempting... but honestly there is nothing good to come from it. Do you really want your partner to like younger girls? What will happen when you get older? What type of older guy has something to do with a teenager, not one I'd want anything to do with.
If your not underage, you do what you feel is best for yourself.
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Two issues I have with your comment:
1) just because your mother doesn't care, doesn't mean it's right.
2) If your just going to defend anything negative someone says about the situation... why are you asking for help?
Not trying to be rude but point out... your question asks if it's wrong and to help? Now you are defending the act, when I said it would be wrong if you are underage. There is nothing normal about a 30 year old man wanting a relationship with a 12-17 year old. I won't lie and say that's ok, because it is not. You still haven't stated your age. So again, I don't know if it applies. Everyone lives and learns on their own... but just to say.. you must realize there is something wrong with this situation, or you wouldn't even ask to begin with.
Well I am in love with him. My mom doesn't care if we date, she also works with the cops. He loves me too.
cosmopinkice, according to her profile, she is 17, meaning the guy would be 33.