My parents are really strict and i love them for it because i still have so much to experience like my first kiss or first boyfriend (im 14)
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I would say going to your mother and asking her to ask him to lighten up would not be a bad idea. Suggesting that the boy wants to meet them. After its all said and done, once he has left, find out what your mom thinks of the guy, then bring it up to her. Fathers tend to be more demanding than mothers, mostly because we know where the boys minds can wander. Think of this as a test. If this guy friend of yours is really into you, then your father's strictness might not matter. He is still willing to come to your house under your parents watchful eye, so I'd say this guy gets points for bravery. If he truly likes you, he will understand your father is protecting you. If he does take offense, then it could be that he is just sweet talking you.
The real tough part is, you've met a guy, and you feel good about him. Sometimes we are so lonely that we overlook things because someone finally says all the right things. Make sure you don't let yourself overlook the bad for the good.
Don't take my advice on this, but ask your mom: If the boy asks permission to your father directly, would that impress your father enough to actually let him visit?
How old is he? Have you considered having his parents talk to your parents?
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M$don't be sad and look for another one really cares about you and loves you and won't leave you for anything.
Note: your parents are so right.
Another Note: I'm a 13 years old boy and look I don't prefer kissing or doing anything wrong and of course you understand me.
I just prefer doing anything you want with your boyfriend after marring.
I'm Muslim and this is my opinion.
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M$maybe if u go with your friend and his friends to a movie or something your parents will be ok with it
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I'll add that while it's hard not to, don't mistake kindness as suitability for dating.
It's possible to be friends with someone and never date. My wife and I were only friends for 13 years before we even kissed. Turns out she is the perfect person for me. We never rushed it, pushed it or anything and we've never been happier with anyone else.
Most people mistake feeling good for love. It's hard not to because for your first time you have nothing to compare it to, but if you realize that at your age neither of you are ready to settle down and have kids, don't worry so much about having to wait.
Take your parents advice, they're doing the right thing and you know it. Don't let flattery (genuine or not) change your attitude. You're a good girl and you'll be happier for it. :)
Always ask permission, stick to the rules and trust that we've all been through this before. Time will pass and things will work out for the best if you let it. Oh, and enjoy the good feelings. The first time is always memorable. Just remember, no one stays with the first person they liked. :)
Well... I suppose there could have been ONE person in all of history who has, but thinking you'll be the SECOND is really pushing the boundaries of reality. Enjoy being friends and being nice to each other. No need to take it to another level yet.