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My girlfriend always talks about her ex. Are these grounds for breaking up?

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twinpairs | 2 years, 8 months ago
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Surprisingly I found a whole website about breaking up: http://breakinguptips.com/
It explains phases we go through, has breaking up tips, etc. (May be helpful)

By the nature of your question, it appears that you feel you need some legitimate reason for breaking up. If she talks constantly about her ex. and this drives you crazy then you are free to breakup. The truth is you can breakup for any number of reasons. One, you don't want to be in the relationship anymore. Two, you find the two of you are incompatible. Three, you enjoy yourself more when you are not around your girlfriend. Four, Five, Six, Seven, Eight, ... Truth be told if it is not working out for any reason, you are free to breakup. Remember this goes both ways. Suppose she finds you insensitive, unavailable, unable to listen to her concerns, then by all means she can break up with you too.

In my humble opinion, boyfriend - girlfriend relationships are sort of a trial period for the real thing. This is a time to find out if you are compatible, to see if you can communicate, to see if you want to spend the rest of your lives together. If things don't work out, move on.

Some old advice given me was: the time to get out of a relationship is as soon as you realize it will never work out!

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pellrider2 | 2 years, 8 months ago
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Talk to her. Tell her that she really has to move on

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jkepler | 2 years, 8 months ago
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It could be grounds for breaking up. Have you tried to talk to her about this before? Your question makes it sound like you're towards the end of your rope. It may be wise to start by asking he how she'd feel if you began talking about your ex constantly. There's even a chance that she doesn't realize she's doing it. Since it seems you may be close to ending the relationship anyway, I think you've got nothing to lose by sitting down and having a serious talk about it. If the talk doesn't work out - there's your sign.

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masterzeco | 2 years, 7 months ago
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Yes because she apparently still in love with the ex if she still talks about the ex

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emssnyder | 2 years, 7 months ago
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they could be but before you do the deed i would ask her if she still has feelings for him. tell her how it makes you feel when she talks about him. ask her how she would think she would feelif you talked about your ex but i can see you point if that dosent work i would say its over if she cant take that in

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dr_sray | 2 years, 7 months ago
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I would agree with Twin Pairs and MichelleD, you have made up your mind about the breking up, you just need a reason. Breakup by all means and let her go, it would be advisable to not make her feel it was because of a specific habit of hers, tell her that you generally found you both incompatible.

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leblueeyes | 2 years, 8 months ago
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First of all, have you talked to her about it ? I can tell you that is it has not been long enough since she broke up with him she must likely not over the breakup yet. I said brakeup not her ex. I will advise to talk to her about it mention the fact that she is always talking about him and that you really don't appreciate that. If it continues then dear friend I will say, Yes!, maybe giving each other sometime or breaking up would be the healthier thing to do.
Hope that helps!

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amybrowne2 | 2 years, 8 months ago
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I do not think it is grounds for a breakup, on that little info.
If she is praising him then run! If she is comparing the two of you run.

However if she is telling you for example my boyfriend used to always hog the remote like you do, compromise on this. Just listen to what she is saying and then listen to your heart. The answer is in your heart.

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albanian | 2 years, 8 months ago
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Yes. People that talk about their ex's all the time are a pain (for some reason it's usually women). Of course, they all do it a little bit. But if she does it a lot, run don't walk.

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