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2 years, 8 months ago via

My boyfriend likes me as a redhead, but I like my hair blonde. Should I change it for him?

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psynopsis | 2 years, 8 months ago
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I think you should. Just for a while anyway. It's not going to be permanent and change is always good! ;D

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gno | 2 years, 8 months ago
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Absolutely, 1000%, do not change your hair.

If you like yourself blonde then you need to stay that way. Not only should you trust your own instincts about your personal beauty, but you should also stay true to yourself! What happens if you two break up and you have to look in the mirror and curse the stupid red hair? It's always going to be one way you bent over backwards to please him.

Plus, gotta say, I find it a little disturbing that he wants to act out his sick red hair fetish on you. How do I know it's a sick red hair fetish? Because all men have it. There's something about red hair that entrances them and makes them go stupid. So WE act stupid and go a bottle job to go red. And that's about the time when the guy loses interest.

No I'm not actually as bitter as I sound. And no this isn't from particular personal experience.

But it still is true that changing yourself for man's pleasure who may be out of your life someday soon is compromising what you love about yourself. Don't do it. Stay true to who you are.

Or offer that you'll go red the moment he goes green! :)

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albanian | 2 years, 8 months ago
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Have you thought about compromising on purple? I really like purple hair but so far have been unable to convince my girlfriend to switch. Purple is an all around great color, and it's an honest way to dye your hair. No one will feel that you are deceiving them by looking like a blond when you are really brunette, etc.
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lesliec | 2 years, 8 months ago Report

I totally agree! Purple hair rocks! I've never had the guts to go purple all the way but I have had my fair share of purple streaks!

Purple rocks

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gno | 2 years, 8 months ago Report

Hey, thanks @albanian! I just streaked my hair purple so I take this as a big compliment. And yes, purple hair is awesome and empowering

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coolperson | 1 year, 8 months ago Report

i really want to dye my hair that colour in the picture! Iv been looking everywhere for THAT type of purple.. albanian do you know where i can get it from?

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magdalene | 2 years, 7 months ago
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You should only do it if it's something that you really want. If you are uncomfortable with coloring your hair simply talk to him about your concerns. Or like others have stated try to compromise.

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gazagyulaqeela | 2 years, 8 months ago
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y should you change it 2 red. ok here's what. you both should sit and tlk it out. proberly give reaseons y u shud n shuddnt n c how it works

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farconville | 2 years, 8 months ago
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No, you shouldn't change anything about you for the sake of anybody. If one truly loves you, he'll love you for who you are and not what you are (Karen is that you?). But seriously, he's got to love the good along with the bad. Do what you like girlfriend....and he better like it! Peace!

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trish_s41 | 2 years, 8 months ago
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how about a strawberry blonde? meet in the middle. but you should ultimately have it the way you like it. it's on you're head.

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kty2777 | 2 years, 8 months ago
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I suggest a compromise too, meet half way.
Why not dye the hair only HE sees red?
Unless you like Brazilians then he wouldn't be able to see much - hang on! that would require a very close- up view :) could be good ....

Have fun and please don't' post the pics :P

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raerae2 | 2 years, 8 months ago
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Nope! You are the one who has to wear it all day everyday. So you should have a hair color that makes you happy and makes you feel good and confident about yourself. A suggestion: if he really, really likes the red hair....buy a nice wig and wear it for him! It could be fun and may just be the kind of compromise he'll go for! :)

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