1 year ago
My bf has some inappropriate talks with a girl he used to have sex with, should I be concerned even though she is in a different country?
i approached him about this already and said he would stop even though nothing can happen as they were so far away from each other and he doesnt like her like that. But she still sends him video msgs and they tell each other i miss you and i love you. He says that is how they talk but she says things like i cant wait for you to come back home for us to finally be together forever and he neither agrees or refutes the statement. mind you he cheated on me with her when we first started dating and we both went home for the christmas. I forgave him for that as i am pregnant and i wanted to give him a good chance to be there but he kept talking to her these sexual conversations. within the last couple months though, he seem to be more committed and spending so much time with me that i dont think he has the time to talk to her like that anymore as we now live together.
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I think you would be happier if you concentrated on your own life and what you want from it rather than his life and trying to control him. In case you haven't noticed you can't make anyone else do anything, not even him. He already knows how you feel, and from your own description there is no indication that he is going to be what you want. Stop trying to turn a zebra into an antelope, because an antelope is not better than a zebra, it's just different. If you would rather have a antelope, go find one and let the zebra have his own life - the way he is happy living it. Do it now before you have kids with someone so inappropriate for your needs
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