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So, I would suggest you research and learn about what you are trying to do, and get very good at it, and get experience, and get your plans C, D, E, etc. in order also - does that help?
Disclaimer I am not qualified to answer as a career counsellor or give career advice nor should you take any of these pages in Mahalo above professional advice. So, I am suggesting that you do get qualified career counselling from a number of sources, school guidance councellor, employment counsellors in employment agencies, professional associations that you are trying to get into attend their conferences and join if possible and consult with them, network and seek mentoring from within the field you are in, look for formal and or informal apprenticeships and nettworking EG. community theatres are ALWAYS looking for volunteers in the administration of theatres, to rehearse and do readthroughs with actors, can you find playreadings in town? workshops? If you are not willing to do any work to connect and learn and research, then as a general idea not knowing you, I would say you are unlikely to be willing to do the work required to achieve your dream and maybe you should look at these pages instead http://www.mahalo.com/how-to-find-a-job or http://www.mahalo.com/how-to-study-in-college although you could use that info to help your career. I think that if you are relying on your friends saying yea or neigh on your career choice, that you really don't have enough information to make a good, researched, informed, and professinally grounded decision - your life is not a coin toss of votes - you get what I am saying? I hope this helps you start your search to find a sucessful and best solution for you. Just because you work as an architect, veterinarian, lawyer, or astronaut does not mean that you can't cut albums in the studio and also be a musician. I believe Jennifer Garner's husband is a professional actor but also still plays in a band. Craig Ferguson played in a band for a long time but is a comedian now, but he was a Hollywod actor also - how bad he was at that drove him to drink I think he said once in a joke and now he is a highly successful comedian on the Late Late Show. If you think that we will vote here without knowing anything about you whether you should keep your dream at all or not, and that is it, you don't have a good enough grasp of how complex the career process is and if you have no idea what you are doing, your chances of being a success are not good. So, what I am suggesting is to do more than gather vote surveys of yes or no, and really find out your skills and abilities, your career choices, your potential, volunteer or try it out, write scenes for a theatre group locally even if it is volunteer, apply for new writer programs, assistance, enter contests, attend conferences, visit professional organization events for the public, etc. Take night classes in improv, comedy, musical theatre, theatre, enrol in a community college, university for performance, apply for a scholarship, audition for parts, audition for a professional theatre school for a scholarship etc. etc. Just off the top of my head with only one sentence from you it is impossible for anyone to know what you should do, and Mahalo can only be a start with a few ideas, but it is YOU that needs to do the whole job and find professionals to make it so for you! My 2 cents. Sorry, I could be all wrong about you, but you have to admit I have some points worth looking up and it would be worth your while finding out what you need to do for yourself beyond the fun hobby site that is Mahalo can offer you.
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Should I give up on my dreams to be a singer and a dancer . actrest just because everyone eles don't I can do it,but I have a back up plane.
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Why should you give up on your dreams plan A or B if you are committed to it? Can you make solid plans C, D, and E etc. to support yourself while plans A and B come to fruition if that is what you decide to do, and have you really really got the information and plans you need to make your life a success for you - I am saying I would suggest professional help strongly career counselling and other stuff below? Take a look at Sarah Atwood as an example http://www.mahalo.com/sarah-atwood . She has been working on her plans to work in the entertainment business for seven years after graduating from a bachelors degree in theatre which has made her extra qualified and gotten her a lot of exposure and food in the door for many small jobs but no one big break at least yet, which was all related to her goals and her committment to her plans. Research many actors on the web, and musicians and find what they did before they were "it" and you will find a similar, mostly longer timeline of other plans and jobs to stay working and healthy. I have especially put Related pages links on how to start out and break in to a range of creative areas that Sarah is working in also so you can see how to start out in many directions. But notice that although she has done many creative projects, and has her resume up to date, her samples are ready, her experience is good, she also supports herself as a waitress until she can quit her day job and that is 7 years after graduation from a program that gives her specific skills and training in her chosen field. How is your resume? How are your headshots? Hosting demo reel? Youtube acting samples and projects you have done? What have you published? Do you have clips of your plays or screenplays that were produced and their reviews? Have you a copy of the latest Writers Market from http://www.amazon.com so you are writing for something real and not an imagined publisher, and have they accepted your query letter, and did you get an advance and do you have a contract committment for deadlines for writing the remainder of your perhaps non fiction book from your sample chapter and outlines that you sent them with outline? or has the local professional theatre given your excerpt from a play a readthrough and the theatre company has committed some seed money to you for play development? how many acting credits are on your cv? is it up to date? I don't know but some professionals need to look at those things with you to really know the answer to the question you are posing and whether they think you have the necessary skills and abilities to go on. An audition to a theatre school would give you a good idea of what is required for such study at college/university, do you have tuition or are going for a scholarship, have you contacted local universities and colleges to find out when you could visit the acting, writing programs is it once a year or can you get permission at other times? How many plays have you attended? Have you met the actors? How many workshops sponsored by professional organizations have you attended and what was their feedback to your questions? have you submitted a writing sample to a writer in residence at a local library or college to get a professional opinion on your writing? how many articles of yours have been accepted? or are you just starting out and did not know you need to do those kinds of things if you want to make it anywhere? What does your current voice, music theory, acting, writing teacher say about your abilities? and what you need to do to get where you need to do to make a living at it? The sooner the better getting the information, training and help you need and if you thought you don't need anything I am suggesting you may not become successful because you may not be doing what you need in order to become successful if that is your goal. So, I would suggest you research and learn about what you are trying to do, and get very good at it, and get experience, and get your plans C, D, E, etc. in order also - does that help?
Disclaimer I am not qualified to answer as a career counsellor or give career advice nor should you take any of these pages in Mahalo above professional advice. So, I am suggesting that you do get qualified career counselling from a number of sources, school guidance councellor, employment counsellors in employment agencies, professional associations that you are trying to get into attend their conferences and join if possible and consult with them, network and seek mentoring from within the field you are in, look for formal and or informal apprenticeships and nettworking EG. community theatres are ALWAYS looking for volunteers in the administration of theatres, to rehearse and do readthroughs with actors, can you find playreadings in town? workshops? If you are not willing to do any work to connect and learn and research, then as a general idea not knowing you, I would say you are unlikely to be willing to do the work required to achieve your dream and maybe you should look at these pages instead http://www.mahalo.com/how-to-find-a-job or http://www.mahalo.com/how-to-study-in-college although you could use that info to help your career. I think that if you are relying on your friends saying yea or neigh on your career choice, that you really don't have enough information to make a good, researched, informed, and professinally grounded decision - your life is not a coin toss of votes - you get what I am saying? I hope this helps you start your search to find a sucessful and best solution for you. Just because you work as an architect, veterinarian, lawyer, or astronaut does not mean that you can't cut albums in the studio and also be a musician. I believe Jennifer Garner's husband is a professional actor but also still plays in a band. Craig Ferguson played in a band for a long time but is a comedian now, but he was a Hollywod actor also - how bad he was at that drove him to drink I think he said once in a joke and now he is a highly successful comedian on the Late Late Show. If you think that we will vote here without knowing anything about you whether you should keep your dream at all or not, and that is it, you don't have a good enough grasp of how complex the career process is and if you have no idea what you are doing, your chances of being a success are not good. So, what I am suggesting is to do more than gather vote surveys of yes or no, and really find out your skills and abilities, your career choices, your potential, volunteer or try it out, write scenes for a theatre group locally even if it is volunteer, apply for new writer programs, assistance, enter contests, attend conferences, visit professional organization events for the public, etc. Take night classes in improv, comedy, musical theatre, theatre, enrol in a community college, university for performance, apply for a scholarship, audition for parts, audition for a professional theatre school for a scholarship etc. etc. Just off the top of my head with only one sentence from you it is impossible for anyone to know what you should do, and Mahalo can only be a start with a few ideas, but it is YOU that needs to do the whole job and find professionals to make it so for you! My 2 cents. Sorry, I could be all wrong about you, but you have to admit I have some points worth looking up and it would be worth your while finding out what you need to do for yourself beyond the fun hobby site that is Mahalo can offer you.
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you need not give up your dream, it just helps if you can find
some help with it to help it succeed, click play button to watch video below
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I don't think that I am answering the question you are asking.
I think, am not sure, you are asking is it ok to dream when everyone is against you when you have two dreams?
I think that what I am trying to say that I personally think that yes it is ok to have dreams even when no one believes in you.
But what I am saying also is that is not as simple as that yes or no when it comes to next steps after that.
I think you are saying you have no support at all emotionally, spiritually, no belief in your reaching your dream by anyone.
I think what I am saying is, that when you choose which of your dreams you will try to make happen you need to do it carefully and
do it in a way that gives you a real chance to succeed.
I assume one of your dreams is that you will eat, have a home, an income, enough for transporation and clothing etc. for your lifetime
and perhaps for a family. What I am saying is that is a necessary dream to make sure you make happen as you need to survive and be well.
So, what I think I was trying to share in maybe a rude awakening kind of way, and I apologise if it upset you, was that you need
to get this right and I think you need help to do it - this is nothing you can do completely on your own and succeed no matter which
dreams you follow, full time or part time or weekends or evenings for a few days, months, years, decades or the rest of your life.
So I think you need more information to make your decisions.
I think you need help to make your decisions, make your plans and achieve whatever you choose to do in your life.
You will need to do research, talk to people, find out what it means when you have each dream and make it come true.
I don't think I am being clear, even now.
I will leave out how to make a living in a practical way until you reach creative and artistic dreams you may have for now.
EG. if you want to be a performer how will you get the skills and experience?
Will you volunteer at a professional theatre/concert venue to be a volunteer or paid usher you can see shows free.
Will you volunteer at local community theatre, school theatre, university/college theatres or professional theatres to help out?
Will you volunteer or take on any helping job at recording studios, television studios, film companies to learn the trade?
Can you get formal training that costs, part of public education, night school, college/university, continuing education,
private courses EG. comedy improv courses are extremely popular everywhere and how do you do in them? awful or great?
Where can you get music training? music lessons? instrument training? get an instrument or rent it? singing? reading music?
Unless they have a lot of support from family and friends especially financial, no one quits their day job for creative work.
However, if you are writing to ask us if you should accept an offer to be on a television sitcom and you are of legal age
and wonder if you should leave school or stay - that is another matter and you probably need good advice even more.
I would say, though, that if you have not done any of those things above, or any other practical things to get you closer
to your dreams by getting concrete skills, training, contacts, networking, mentoring, and gigs or shows or rehearsal help work,
or behind the scenes volunteer work, etc. then you cannot decide really anything for sure about your dreams and whether you
should follow them or not because you don't know what your dreams are and really mean. Maybe you do three plays volunteer
as a behind the scenes gopher and love doing sets and decide to take a program on set design at college, or apply to be
a stage manager or assistant stage manager and go professional that way - that is not a failure of your dream, it is finding
out what you really want to do and what your skills and abilities are and what can make you a living etc.
If you work at a recording studio as a gopher and get a chance to fill in with guitar or drums when they are short a
musician for background sound on a weekend in an emergency in addition to sweeping the floors, and you like backup work
a lot, or percussion, or get fascinated by the mixing and editing in the sound production in the studio and want to learn
that and eventually become a sound engineer studying it nights in a program then that may be what your dream really meant
to you.
Dreams change, because you may not even know what you want. If no one thinks you can do anything, it looks like you
don't have mentors or teachers in your field. Are you saying that you are not getting any professional training yet?
What do your teachers think about your skills and abilities? If you are really at square one and starting out,
find out where you can learn something and try out your dreams for free for a while, then add to it bit by bit to
find out how it goes, then you will yourself have real information and confidence in what you think you should do
based on some facts from what you are doing and your new supporters or not supporters within the field you are trying to
break into. Community theatre programs - some of them are just for children, or just for teens, or just for music theatre,
etc. and community theatre is very plentiful. Finding music training opportunities may be harder but then I have not tried
to find it seriously so that may not be so bad either. Keep in mind that all creative professionas, as do regular
professions have "problem" people in them doing things in self-destructive ways and you need to pick your teachers, mentors
and activities wisely to keep them positive and legal for your long term success.
There is only one J.K.Rowling who I read is now wealthier than royalty, who wrote her books on napkins and scrap papers in
coffee shops and restaurants as a single mother while on welfare in her spare time and eventually became a huge success even
though no one wanted her books for a long time. Actors work for someone as do musicians and filmmakers and are more grounded in everyday
activities - they are not solitary activities like writing novels.
Independent filmmakers have associations where they meet, have workshops, watch films and events as well as list volunteer and job activities.
You can waste a lot of time dreaming about dreams and thinking you are doing things to reach your dreams in isolation when there is a lot of help, training, support, and work experience out there. Did you know that if you know nothing practical about films you may be wasting your time writing filmscripts that are not filmable and are missing key structural elements needed for their success? Did you know that writing plays that are really good is probably impossible if you know nothing about the three dimensional physical limitations of a stage and actors on it? Did you know that actors work very hard at learning and practicing their skills to be really good and it takes a lot of skill and practice to take direction and do two or more things at once on camera? Maybe you have all the details covered, but all we are hearing is the question about whether it is ok to dream - but I think the real questions are more like is your plan to support yourself while you pursue your dreams safe and workable? do you have enough information about your dreams to know what they really mean on a practical level when you are actually doing the job? Can you find support for your dream elsewhere if your current circle does not support it? Can you get proof that your dream is doable? Can you get the education, training and experience needed to make your dream work out? How much work are you willing to put into it every day? What do your teachers, mentors, acquaintances already working in those fields say? etc etc. until you find answers to all of the questions you need - and don't quit your day job until then and it is going great guns! Hope something helped.