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Why is it when your partner cheats, all they can say is "I don't know why I done it"?

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fallen_ang... fallen_ang...
 
 November 11, 2009 12:01 AM
Simple, because they have no valid explanation that could back up the mistake they did. They can't explain it themselves because there's just no correct reason, so they just fall to saying they don't know why they did that.

No matter how incompatible you and your partner is, cheating is not an answer. If you're fed up with your partner, then tell him/her of your problem so you both can decide on something (or a solution) that you can do. CHEATING is not an answer. So to the ones who've been cheated, don't think that it's your fault why your partner cheated. A mistake won't be solved by another mistake. So in the end, though you aren't the best partner there is, your partner have still no reason at all to cheat, so he/she will end up saying, 'I don't know why I done it'.


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silverhamm... silverhamm...
 
November 13, 2009 09:09 PM
Besides, honesty isn't a cheaters strongest character trait.

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November 10, 2009 11:52 PM
This type of response is a cop-out,the easy way of dealing with being caught out,what it is really saying is that the person is not capable of giving a straight answer.There are many reasons why people cheat,but what is more important to you,the reason,or the fact that they did cheat and whether or not you can forgive their deception and want to continue the relationship?This also depends on if this is a "one of"in a moment of weakness or if it happens on a regular basis.You need to decide how important this person is to you,if you are very young,I would suggest moving on to someone else who is more likely to love and respect you,if you are older,have been together for a long time,or if there are kids involved,you need to think more carefully about staying or not in this relationship.I hope your are able to sort out what you really want and find happiness with or without this person,good luck.

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November 11, 2009 12:07 AM
They probably don't really know why. Anyone that's cheated knows there isn't a concrete reason that it happened. It could also be because the reason they did it is something they don't want to tell you or say. ie, he/she was extra sexy hot...she/he is way more fun than you are... not by any means justifying cheating, mind you.

If someone cheats, let them go and enjoy life with the person they cheated with. I would also let anyone go that would actually use the words "I don't know why I done it." There are smarter ones out there...

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