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Why do fools fall in love?

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June 06, 2009 12:22 AM
It feels good and is exciting to the mind and heart.Remember how you felt when you met your first love.Legs all shaky heart pounding and in my case stuttering a lot.
Contrary to what most people think, the statistics show that most people fall in love with someone that they have known for a while. People only report falling in love quickly about 1/3 to 40 percent of the time. Of course, this varies from culture to culture. Falling in love happens differently between cultures but it does occur in most cultures.

The Biochemistry of Falling in Love:

Among the first signs of "falling in love" is a giddy high similar
to what might be obtained as a result of an amphetamine boost. This
"high" is a sign that the brain has entered a distinct neurochemical state. This occurs as a result of the hypothalamus releasing a chemical sub-stance (probably phenylethylamine) that is very much like an amphetamine and which, like any "upper", makes the heart beat faster and confers energy. This biochemically-based "high" is experienced by anyone "in love" quite irrespective of their chronological age.

Very noteworthy is the fact that chocolate is high into phenylethylamine--the
very substance that is released by the brain into the bloodstream as a
concomitant of falling in love. When the love-feelings cease the body
craves chocolate because it has developed a tolerance to the phenylethylamines which it is no longer getting--because the brain has stopped secreting them.

Talk show host Phil Donahue nicely summarizes much of this material in his 1985 book THE HUMAN ANIMAL (see ch 6).

Romantic love feelings commence in the region of the lower brain that is known as the hypothalamus. The hypothalamus is composed of a dense cluster of nerves which controls hundreds of bodily functions and impacts in a large host of ways the entire nervous system. Whenever a person subjectively perceives another human being as romantically appealing a portion of the hypothalamus transmits a message by way of various chemicals to the pituitary gland. And in turn the pituatary releases a host of its own hormones which rapidly suffuse the entire bloodstream. The sex glands respond to these hormones by rapidly releasing into the bloodstream their own hormones which have the effect, even among preadolescent children, of creating a more rapid heartbeat and a feeling of lightness in the head. Simultaneously the nerve pathways in and around the hypothalamus produce chemicals that induce-provided that these chemicals continued to be produced over a long period of time-what people refer to as "falling in love".
Source(s):
http://health.discovery.com/centers/loverelationships/articles/fallinlove.h...
http://www.angelfire.com/ab6/polepino/Chapter11/Biochemistryoflove.html



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June 06, 2009 12:14 AM
because they're too foolish to stand lol

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June 07, 2009 10:56 AM
There are two types of people who are in love. Fools who fall in love knowing they won't be loved back and smart people who love those who love them. I am a fool. :'(

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June 08, 2009 05:55 PM
A fool is someone willing to completely give himself over to love. A fool will surrender absolutely to love, risking everything, anything. A fool is the one who will, among all his friends, be most likely to discover the true nature of love. Love is an ocean of being into which one must willingly abandon oneself without fear of the drowning. Only a fool will do that. And so, only a fool will know that in love, one becomes joined in inexpressibly blissful union with the beloved. In that joining and surrender of self lie the true secrets of the nature of pure love, it is Divine. Why do fools fall in love? Because they know deep within themselves that falling into love truly and completely is the only way to know why we exist at all. It is worth any price.

Now, if your question is why do the foolish fall in love, well.. they know all that is above, but they think it has to do with the other person, not love itself. They think that they must surrender to the other person, and not to love. They are confused by the surface of things, and think they can possess love rather than allowing love to possess them.

I have been a fool for love, knowing nothing done for love is ever foolish.

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