You should find another boyfriend. There are lots of guys, you don't want a loser like that.

{disclaimer: I am not a professional marriage councilor}
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Hun, no one can properly help or advise you that has to come from within yourself. Try to relate yourself sit with notepad and write yourself what was positive and what was negative about your relationship. If he really cares about you or loves you his family's thoughts about you should mean anything to him shouldn't he be old enough to make his own decisions. Two years is alot to put into a relationship but weigh out your pro and cons with your feeling and what kind of person you think he is and decide for yourself and decide with your heart nothing else. I you love something set it free if it comes back to you its your if it doesn't it never was ment to be. Good luck!
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If he really wanted to be with you, then he would, regardless of what the family might have to say about it.
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If your boyfriend has left you because of his family then it probably would have never worked out for you. I know how hard t is to break up especially after such a long time and you will not want to hear this just now but deep down you know that he was not worth the love you were giving him. One day Mr. right will turn up, you have to believe that. It happened for me.
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Good you accepted the deeds what you have done. then stand for few days and spend time to regain your energy lossed due to contnous roaming thoughts about your love and your boy friend. when you are living in duality you wont decide the fact and you wont get accurate results. spend time alone in nature for some time daily with involving garding or helping to pet animals ,then your stress will be reduced , During the time experiment it on your thoughts by contnous observing just like an visitor without involving in it, concentrate on your footing on walking in the garden or when you are alone ,concentrate on ever action carried by u for some time , with in short time all your problems will be solved.
wish you a happy life as u like.it..
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I don't see the dilemma. He's made his choice and it seems that you haven't accepted it yet.

Thank your lucky stars that you discovered this trait of his before you were too intertwined.

Might I suggest that you grieve the loss and then move on... There are better matches out there for you!
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I would say forget about this boy. Everyone makes mistakes,and yes your past is going to influence your future, but you shouldnt be judged on that alone. It seems like his family never really gave you a chance to show them who you really are, they had already judged you prior to getting to know you. After 2 years if he ended it, it wasnt meant to be, you deserve someone that is going to love you for you, and not judge you on your past and prior mistakes. Don't get me wrong family is important and they are the ones that will always be there, but his family is wrong in this instance, and he should of stood up for you a long time ago, and tried to get his family to give you a decent chance. I wouldnt worry about it anymore, whats done is done, that past cannot be changed and youll learn from past mistakes and be stronger. Everything happens for a reason and although you may be hurt, or upset or angry rite now this situation will only make you stronger and wiser in the future.

Hope this Helps :)
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You need to find a guy with a nice family that will love you unconditionally. Take some time to move on and then get back out there and find the right guy with the right family, because no matter what your past is you don't deserve a bunch of stuck up in laws that can get their heads out of their.....
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really the best thing you could do in your situation is know that it is the past and move on with out him. If he is to embarrassed of you to tell his own family its not his girlfriend he is introducing its just a friend then he isn't worth it. no one should have to deal with someone not appreciating them. if he broke it off because it wasn't working the first time you dated why would it the second or third?
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