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lilyrose | September 07, 2009 07:54 PM | in Love & Relationships

Is it possible that is him

In elementary school i had a crush on this boy who was one year older than me.I was in third grade,and he was in fourth grade.He also had a crush on me.In the school bus,he would always stare at me,and stare.We never talked.He graduated in 1994,and i never saw him again.I remember his name,but i dont know his last name.I am searching for him,because i am curious to know where he is,what he looks like after 15 years.I love him so much.Last week,i searched for a guy on facebook who also had a crush on me who went to the same elementary school as me,but he also was in the same grade as the boy that i had a crush on.He also was in the same school bus as me.Anyways,i saw him on facebook.I noticed he added a guy named K as friends on his page,and i started wondering if its my crush,because his name is K.I really need to know.I need to ask him if he attended the same elementary school as me.What should i do?

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BEST ANSWER decided by votes | gno | September 07, 2009 08:55 PM

I've been in your shoes...well, almost. There have been good friends that I've lost track of and have tried to find again on Facebook.

As a person who's done this (and been wrong so far), I say go ahead and send "K" a message asking about school. At worst, he'll write back and say "sorry, no". In my experience people are very friendly and will be glad to let you know either way.

As @fallen_angel21 suggests, if it is him don't be surprised if he's not the mental dreamboat you've worked him up to be. A LOT can change since the 4th grade! It is a very romantic idea you have, but prepare yourself that he might not be the same sweet boy he used to be.

Good luck.

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fallen_angel21 | September 07, 2009 08:00 PM

Leave a message on his wall and ask if he came from the same school. I think there's nothing really wrong with you asking him that. Befriend him too. Don't expect too much though. Who knows he could be different now from the guy you liked before.

Oh well, it doesn't matter anymore if you'll like him still or not, at least you have a new friend, right? ^^

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amy_lynn7972 | September 10, 2009 07:17 PM

just leave a private message for him when he request to add him as your friend, that way if he says no its not him no one else knows except the two of you.

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