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I sit next a guy in a class and we met two days ago. We've flirted alot but he hasn't asked for my number or anything. Is he interested?

We're both taking a class that started on Monday and started talking right away. He chose to sit right next to me and we flirt quite a bit. He still hasn't asked for my number or anything. I know it's been only two days but I feel like if he was truly interersted in me, he'd have asked for my number by now. Am I just completely paranoid?
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July 07, 2009 09:38 PM
Probably, but he may be one of those shy guys. Bring things up that show him you are single and ask about his situation. He may see that and make the move.

Good luck! :)

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sweetpeach... sweetpeach...
 
July 07, 2009 09:44 PM
Thank you so much for the advice! I'll definitely have to do that!

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irishsteph... irishsteph...
 
July 07, 2009 09:39 PM
I don't think you're paranoid!

A lot of the time, guys need a "green light." In other words, guys need to know it's okay for them to ask you out (the male ego is a pretty fragile thing). My best advice is to find a way to give him your numer yourself: there is nothing hotter than when a girl gives you her number. HUGE ego boost!

Just say something like, "If you want to study, we should get together. Here's my number, gimme a shout!"
Make it real casual, but confident (that's key. Confidence is everything in dating!)

Good luck and let me know how it turns out! You'll do great!!

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sweetpeach... sweetpeach...
 
July 07, 2009 09:44 PM
Wow, that's fantastic advice. Thank you so much. I really appreciate it!

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snawitz snawitz
 
July 07, 2009 11:09 PM
Perhaps,perhaps not.
For some people it takes longer time to show their feelings

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trinifigue... trinifigue...
 
July 08, 2009 02:37 AM
I like your question. There is no way to know for sure what he is thinking. Give him more time. You two, just met two days ago. Do not rush. My experience has been that sometimes men like to take their time and there is nothing wrong with that.

Get to know him first. Keep talking to him in class. Enjoy this phase. Maybe, after you get to know him better, you will find out that you do not really like him that much. Maybe tomorrow he will ask you for your phone number. Maybe he has a girlfriend or they just broke up. Just take it easy and try not to rush into things.

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