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M$1 October 21, 2009 02:35 PM

Hey I wonder if she likes me. We look at each other a lot, and also smile at each other. But on msn she barely talks... More in real life

More detailed, whenever we see each other, we smile at each other and look at each other. Especially the eyes. Last friday for example: I was going back to the class, she was there, looked at me, and gave a nice smile :), yesterday she did the same but looked a little bit shy... Not sure though... But we don't talk very much and long, but she seems to want to try to talk to me, but on msn she never talks, unless I talk and then she gives dry answers, and doesn't really act interested... What should I do?
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October 22, 2009 02:56 PM
I'm not that sure... Because I think I'd do the same to people I know who always looks at me. There people who smiles when they happen to catch you staring. So I think it's pretty normal. Try talking to her more often. Ask her something that could trigger a healthy conversation. Ask her questions not answerable by just a yes or a no.

I think I didn't help that much right? But, I've been in the situation where I thought a certain person likes me just because he looks then smiles at me always. Sometimes, some are just being friendly. It's better not to assume. So the best way to know is to befriend her. Get close to her. :)

Good luck! ^^
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October 22, 2009 07:24 PM
I'm not really staring, and she's also looking my way sometimes while I'm not looking and such, and when she smiled those 2 times, I didn't stare at all, just looked in her eyes for a sec or 2. And I've actually never seen her smiling to others. But I'm just not so sure...

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October 22, 2009 07:27 PM
Hmmm, I see... then the only way to confirm things is by befriending her. :) She seemed friendly enough so I think this wouldn't give you a hard time... ^^

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October 22, 2009 07:32 PM
yeah, guess so, but I'm shy... what should I do? :O

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October 22, 2009 07:36 PM
Piece of advice, shyness won't get you anywhere. :) You can do it. Just be confident and be yourself and I'm pretty much sure you'll get close to her soon. Plus, like what I said, she seemed friendly too. Someone wouldn't smile often to a person if she has no intentions of befriending him.

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October 22, 2009 07:39 PM
yeah you're right, thanks for the encouragement, I'll try my best to do it =D thanks again, hope she likes me too haha

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October 22, 2009 07:47 PM
Good luck! ^^ I hope she likes you too!

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October 22, 2009 07:49 PM
Thanks!! =D Your answer is selected as the best answer, thanks again! =D

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October 22, 2009 03:25 PM
looks can be misleading.
she might really like you or just want to be your friend
so I'll advice you approach her and ask tobe her friend and see how it goes.
Frienship doesnt hurt anyone

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October 22, 2009 03:53 PM
talk to her, hang around, and see if there is a spark :)

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October 22, 2009 04:05 PM
The first question is what are you willing to risk to try and be bolder about finding the answer to your question. Obviously, you should start by examining you own feelings about her. If your answer to that question is that you like her, I say bite the bullet and approach her, just like a real man would do. Don't get me wrong here, but the fact that you are trying to figure out something through MSN does not really seem to be the right tactic. Maybe she is testing you, did you think about that? What is wrong with talking to her anyway? Trust your feelings and go for it. You will never know unless you give it a try. If for some reason she does not reciprocate to your feelings, well, I guess you should move on...

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October 22, 2009 07:25 PM
Thanks for your comment. I guess you are right, but I'm in love with her, I can tell you that. But how do you mean "testing me"? I know MSN isn't really the solution, but I'm kind of a shy person. But yeah, I should try to talk more often, thanks!

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