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does he like me?
hella pathetic to be asking yall but i just need your opinions.
school just started last week. i met this guy. super cute. we hadn't started talking until like the 4th day of school. before we started talkin, he'd just look at me like he wanted to talk to me but he always hesitates. So i made the first move. He got HELLA girls after him. I got competition. So anyways, In the morning, when we out waiting for the bus, he just says hi to me because he got other people talking to him and i usually stand with my cousin. I only have him for 5th pd. and usually we just stare at each other and laugh for no apparent reason. like he'd tease me or play with me. if i put my hair behind my ear he'd a copy me. and i usually see him staring at me. i dont mind though ;]. After school, we usually sit together on the bus. We talk a liddo bit but im not so good at keeping the convo goin. And when we get off he always hugs me.
The thing is, this morning his little brother was all like, "You like my brother huh? your like his stalker?" i was like ,"im not his stalker but i like him." he told his brother and he was like, "nah, she's lying." and he laughed. then his brother asked if he liked me. he said no. then he looked at me and winked. no one else saw it though. Then my friend asked his brother if he does like me and his brother said, " he probably does, his last GF looked exactly like her."
Theres this other girl thats after him. She told him to sit with her this other day. he said i want to sit alone. but she begged so they sat together. when the girls stop came, he came to sit next to me and was like, "finally i can sit by you." we dont look alike
He hugs other girls too but i noticed he hugs them like the one arm way. everytime we hug its both arms. (he smells sooo good ) :) Its like im the only one he hugs with both arms. i dont know if that helps.
Today after school. we sat together and his friend was sitting on the seat next to ours. He was like, " look at her she's so cute." i dont know if he was talking cute cute or because i was short cute. He calls me fun size because of my height.
sorry its long but what do you think? and what should i do?
school just started last week. i met this guy. super cute. we hadn't started talking until like the 4th day of school. before we started talkin, he'd just look at me like he wanted to talk to me but he always hesitates. So i made the first move. He got HELLA girls after him. I got competition. So anyways, In the morning, when we out waiting for the bus, he just says hi to me because he got other people talking to him and i usually stand with my cousin. I only have him for 5th pd. and usually we just stare at each other and laugh for no apparent reason. like he'd tease me or play with me. if i put my hair behind my ear he'd a copy me. and i usually see him staring at me. i dont mind though ;]. After school, we usually sit together on the bus. We talk a liddo bit but im not so good at keeping the convo goin. And when we get off he always hugs me.
The thing is, this morning his little brother was all like, "You like my brother huh? your like his stalker?" i was like ,"im not his stalker but i like him." he told his brother and he was like, "nah, she's lying." and he laughed. then his brother asked if he liked me. he said no. then he looked at me and winked. no one else saw it though. Then my friend asked his brother if he does like me and his brother said, " he probably does, his last GF looked exactly like her."
Theres this other girl thats after him. She told him to sit with her this other day. he said i want to sit alone. but she begged so they sat together. when the girls stop came, he came to sit next to me and was like, "finally i can sit by you." we dont look alike
He hugs other girls too but i noticed he hugs them like the one arm way. everytime we hug its both arms. (he smells sooo good ) :) Its like im the only one he hugs with both arms. i dont know if that helps.
Today after school. we sat together and his friend was sitting on the seat next to ours. He was like, " look at her she's so cute." i dont know if he was talking cute cute or because i was short cute. He calls me fun size because of my height.
sorry its long but what do you think? and what should i do?
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| September 05, 2009 03:56 AM |
Part of the reason may be how sweet you are or how you seem to be able to think for yourself and not be jealous that he hugs other girls too.
But if he's mimicking you (copying your actions like moving his hair back too) and tells you he's happy he finally gets to sit with you - it's clear he likes you and it's okay to like him back.
All good relationships happen because the two involved can talk about everything, good or bad, and not be scared off by it. That doesn't mean you have to put up with being treated bad or lied to, but it does mean that you let the person be themselves.
You have lots of time to get to know each other better. Don't rush. When you find you are doing more kissing than talking, you've skipped over the best part of a relationship! Don't give up on what you think is important, even if he is cute!
Not even if he's hella cute!! :)
Good luck! I hope he's a sweet and wonderful as he smells!
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September 05, 2009 09:39 AM
He likes you. Relax and think of smart ideas for fun things to do that are more fun when two people do them together, and if he doesn't think of any himself because he doesn't have the same imagination or if he has but he doesn't want to look like he's being too obvious or pushing things too fast, then suggest some of those ideas to him yourself when people who will make a big social scene out of it are not around.
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September 06, 2009 02:58 PM
it's obvious he likes you but if you want more confirmation you should ask him out. like you said he has starter trouble and you had to make the first move and the first "date" can be something completely harmless so if he says no it wont be so crucial. ask him to your 5th period homework together or go to the movies with a group of people. come to think of it a group of people would be a great idea so you can see how he treats you in front of your/his friends. best of luck and i hope you get your man!!!
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September 07, 2009 05:38 AM
Yes, I think he likes you too, but you should be more aloof especially if alot of other girls are chasing him. Continue to smile and flirt with him. I wouldn't ask him out. Wait for him to ask you. Guys will chase the girls who they really want. If you chase him you may always wonder how he feels about you. My (hopefully) soon to be husband has chased me over fifteen years.
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September 07, 2009 08:01 PM
That's why I think she should wait until noone else is around to ask him out... in case he's from a background that says he's supposed to be the one to do the asking.
I grew up in a part of the world where the guy was supposed to do the asking, so it always made me feel like I would have to make some sort of issue out of it if I was asked by a girl in front of others, but actually I *liked* it when the girl did the asking, because it took away so much of the worry about being rejected... as long she'd ask me when nobody else was watching.
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I grew up in a part of the world where the guy was supposed to do the asking, so it always made me feel like I would have to make some sort of issue out of it if I was asked by a girl in front of others, but actually I *liked* it when the girl did the asking, because it took away so much of the worry about being rejected... as long she'd ask me when nobody else was watching.
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I think they need to get alone together.