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singleblackmale | June 02, 2009 07:43 PM | in Love & Relationships | via Twitter

Does anyone actually want to date a "Good" Girl/Guy? Is bad still sexy?

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BEST ANSWER decided by votes | morningbird | June 03, 2009 03:36 PM

The appearance of bad is sexy. The reality of bad is not. A little naughty gives a thrill but while jerks may get more short term action, the good guys get more long term action.

I find that most people who complain that "good" guys finish last aren't so much good as clingy, whiny and scary.
"Good" guys who start buying expensive gifts right off the bat or call every day early in the relationship set off warning bells for any self-respecting dater. Early declarations of love and discussions of marriage and family are also unnerving. It screams potential stalker and stalkers are scary.

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lostsnconfusion | June 03, 2009 01:30 AM

I think that the good want the bad and the bad wants the good. I think that every relationship needs a yin and a yang for it to work out. We like bad girl/guys only because we think that they're adventurous but things aren't always as they seem.

And yes I think bad is sexy, until you find out that everything about the person is bad ;)

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zardoz | June 03, 2009 01:08 PM

When I was younger I loved the bad girls, but I soon realized thier trouble. Now that I am older I want stability and reliability of the good girls. Im all done with the drama.

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Voted as best: masontx

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