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Can a man or woman who cheats, ever be trusted again?

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nikkycasas nikkycasas
 
 November 10, 2009 12:48 AM
i was in that past situation , my husband cheated me.but i have this believe not all people are the same but as what the saying goes, you can no longer trust
your partner once they cheated you. you lost trust and confidence to your love one,it's a natural feeling and attitude,on the side it's start to deteriorate your feelings to your partner.you can't stop of thinking that once his/her alone with somebody else their might something going on between them.
in short , you don't trust him/her anymore and to solve the agony it's better to break up and give freedom to your partner maybe you are not the love of his/her life.
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nikkycasas nikkycasas
 
November 11, 2009 05:06 AM
thank you so much...

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vladis vladis
 
November 09, 2009 10:04 PM
No.... Thats what I think...Lies, cheating and stealing....I can't forgive that. Ever!

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silverhamm... silverhamm...
 
November 10, 2009 12:11 AM
Forgiveness doesn't require amnesia.

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2besure 2besure
 
November 10, 2009 03:53 AM
Good point! If you can not forgive, it is best to move on, rather than to be miserable and make the other person miserable.

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kaliekat kaliekat
 
November 09, 2009 10:26 PM
Well, I tend to agree with @vladis but with a little more leniency. I'm a big fan of people being allowed to make mistakes if they acknowledge them as such.If it is the one and only time and there are extenuating circumstances I might be able to trust the person again. Make the mistake twice though and you're out of here! ;-)

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2besure 2besure
 
November 10, 2009 03:55 AM
A second chance will eventually reveal, if they were worthy of a second chance. Time will prove their true nature.

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lgalatea lgalatea
 
November 09, 2009 11:24 PM
My grandma always said, "A dog will always return to his vomit." It depends on the reason for cheating. If a guy cheated on impulse to "get strange" then it is possible that he may change his mind after doing it and be set straight if it freaks him out. On the contrary, if he likes varied sex, the cheating may make him compelled to do it again.

If there is any kind of emotion involved, then there is a very high chance of cheating again. In other words, if he has some kind of side relationship that is not just sex.

A girl who cheats on a guy will cheat again almost always because most women must be emotionally involved with someone if they are going to cheat with them.

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womom womom
 
November 10, 2009 02:45 AM
in my opinion and experience, the short answer is no. Even if they don't physically cheat again, they may find other ways to cheat. Developing strong, emotional, exclusive friendship with one person. I know many don't feel that cybersex, cyberflirting counts as cheating. But in my eyes it does, if it is an activity that draws you AWAY from your partner and that you do without him/her, it's cheating. You're cheating on your partner and your relationship. Some people just can not be with just one person, and for that they need to be honest and move on. You don't want to be looking over your shoulder all the time wondering and playing detective--that's no way to have a relationship either.
If the behavior isn't "punished" somehow, it's bound to be repeated.
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