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Eggs or chickens which is the first..this is a old question but I will ask you a different question click here..

Which is the creator of witch? I ams saying about sourse of love do you think "likeness" creates love for someone? Or the "loveness" creates the like to someone?

I personally think first is love then come on like to someone along the love...whats your thinking??
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owl owl
 
 November 14, 2009 07:52 PM
I am sorry but I beg to differ. It is liking (likeness) that eventually changes into love. Liking develops when you stay close to someone and witness/participate in his ups and downs in his/her life. Slowly, you began to realize your moral responsibilities towards that person and feel attached. This is the beginning of love. You feel sad in his/her sorrow and happy in his/her joy. It becomes hard to stay away since you start caring and worrying for that person.

Your hormones play a vital role in developing your likings and ultimately changing it into love. Your hormones will make you like even an ugly looking person of opposite sex/same sex if you stay close to her/him for a long. This will finally change into love. That is why you will find many beautiful women falling in love with ugly looking men and vice-versa.

Moreover, it has also been proved that likeness (physical/sexual/psychological attraction) comes first and then love. You cannot love a person whom you do not like, but you can still like a person whom you do not love.

You might have felt this thing many times that you start liking a person at the first sight, without actually falling in love with him/her. Take your friends for example.

Hope it answers your question. Thanks


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safiqulisl... safiqulisl...
 
November 14, 2009 08:01 PM
Well answer but in your answer there is limit that you just judging the relationship. Love also can be to other also who is not my special SHE !

Ok thanks
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November 15, 2009 06:21 AM
I am sorry Safi if I could not make myself clear, but I did not mean love between a boyfriend and a girlfriend. But since the whole world is divided into only 2 sexes, male & female, any sort of love will be between a He and a She or between He & He or She & She. In the very first paragraph of my answer, I mentioned that it is staying closer that results in likeness and finally love. This thing can happen even between a old person and a child or vice versa. But since there cannot be more than 2 pronouns He & She, I always used He/She. Hope I made clear this time. Thanks.

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silverhamm... silverhamm...
 
November 15, 2009 12:45 AM
1. Attraction
2. Love
3. Choice
4. Liking
5. Intimate
6. Friends

In my life now the order was 4, 6, 3, 2. 1, 5.

My choice now is one person over all others. Before her I chose many over one and the order was 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 and if I was lucky, 6.

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asha59 asha59
 
November 15, 2009 10:15 AM
liking is that you may like a person with his look, dressing, or nature or her way of talking, walking, dressing, etc anything. First liking and it can gradually change into love, depends how deep your liking takes change. but when it is love, you know love is blind. love doesnt demand like or unliking of any person irrespective of gender, caste or creed. its simply love and you love that person because his/her look, talking, dressing, eating etc anything though may not be attractive to others but definately has touched your heart.
Love is beyond all and everything.

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aashysh aashysh
 
November 17, 2009 12:16 PM
From my point of view n the facts we observe mainly around us and in colleges, our school is that first the likeness for someone starts to develope and then at a perticular time we find ourself to be in love with the person we were so close these days
Mainly between collg and schools friends its common that a boy and girl who are really so close friends finds at times that the latter is the one they really love and it grows more with their time spending,merryfull times being together nad when they think of these beautyful moments they find that their friend is the one who is the special person of his life
And its not just an observations its a fact that we reallyy seee and watch in movies
There are special cases when two unkown person fall in love with ieach other but their first meeting also is a first step of likings
So its first a liking and then love all arounddd :)


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