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manpreetkaur_4 | July 05, 2009 06:15 PM | in Love & Relationships

A lover merciful appeal,can u help me?

Hello friends, I am a indian sikh boy and i love an iranian muslim girl very much, we cant live without each other,and we met on internet one year ago but after that she become my life.We mostly chat sometimes we talk but we are always in contact.we both become ill if we did not meet each other any day. I have never meet her physically but her soul is very much linked to me. We have decided to marry now but she is in iran and I am in India i dont know what to do , but i only know that i cant live without her.We have decided to meet first physically than will talk about it. But my only appeal to all my friends is that can u plzzz tell me that whether i will face any trouble in that if we make our future , plzzz if u ever love anyone than reply me honestly

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BEST ANSWER decided by votes | pellrider | July 06, 2009 12:42 PM

Try to get a visa for her to come and visit you. Or get yourself a visa and go to Iran to meet her. Or mutually agree to come to another country and spend a couple of days together. To marry her, it is important to see her and know her.
Iran, to my understanding is a Muslim country and it is difficult to go there now. But, I think, you both can meet at Dubai or some other middle east cities.
I guess, Iranians can get visa to come to India. Regarding the troubles, I think, both of your families can resist this relationship. Both the cultures have their own beliefs and it might be hard to make them understand your love. Another problem is if you both are not willing to accommodate each others beliefs and culture, it will create a lot of friction in the marriage.If you think, your love can handle all these, then go ahead, and the life is waiting to give you all it has to offer.

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janakan | July 06, 2009 04:03 AM

How and when are you going to meet her next?

You wanted an honest answer so here it is: I think it will be very hard to keep the relationship going if you haven't met before, and if your families are against it, but there is always hope!

If you can see her soon, and it isn't going to get one of you in big trouble, then do it! Keep us updated :).

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ziminya | July 06, 2009 05:27 PM

Congratulations! It's always wonderful when soulmates find each other! I think your decision to wait until you meet face to face before discussing marriage is a very smart and responsible choice. It will give you a chance to work on issues together before you start a family. You probably will have problems due to nationality, religion, and family expectations, but as long as you both can compromise and decide how you are going to deal with these issues together, I think you'll be fine.

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