I'm not going to lie - physical attractiveness is a must for me. I don't have to have a man who is straight out of GQ, but if I feel no physical attraction I'm not going to pursue a relationship with the person or allow them to attempt to pursue a relationship with me. Sound shallow? I suppose it might be, but I'm being honest.

Bad boys never appealed to me. I have a hard time understanding women who like bad boys - especially the ones who bring abuse or drama to a relationship. I want an intelligent man who is able to keep up with the conversations I have to offer. Nice boys who want to be "bad" in the bedroom are ok with me though...lol. No, make that a requirement also. :)

Another aspect that is important to me is that we can be friends. I have to actually like someone to spend time with them. If you aren't able to get along with your partner and enjoy the time spent with them the relationship is doomed from the beginning.

Probably what is important above all else is that we agree on the major things in life - do we both want children? If so, how would those children be raised, punished, etc? How close are they to their families? Are they complete mommy's boys? Do they allow their family to make decisions for them? Are they responsible financially? What are their political and religious views? Are they willing to travel?

Granted, I'm married so my search is over (thank God!) and I managed to get all the little details I expect in one man -- amazing.

Ladies, never ever settle. Being lonely and staying single is much better than being lonely and being with someone.

Well... lol, when I was single, I got easily attracted to good-looking (clean, neat, appealing) or ''campus' crush'' type of guys and tidy dressers. BUT, he also must have a talent or he must also be able to handle good conversations. He should not be boring. He also must be chivalrous. I remember a friend who had a boyfriend. Her boyfriend was good-looking and athletic. He was a professional basketball player in a city here in the Philippines. When my friend invited him over to a birthday party held in a resort, I really didn't like the way he acted. It seemed that he was never taught of proper conduct when it comes to women. Whenever we rode tricycles, he would be the one to step up and sit down. Grrr, I was just observing him, he really was a turn-off. My preferences also differ. I also was attracted to a bit of a bad boy type (just the looks) but he should not really be abusive (esp. when I was a teen). I'm turned off if he would be as humorous as Jim Carey.

Good thing, I got married to a down to earth, chivalrous, moderately good-looking, good-natured, intelligent, faithful and truly loving man.

To me, looks or a “cool” guy attitude do not matter much, if that is all the guy has to offer. I would prefer a man who is not only more intellectually inclined, but has a sense of humor and is not afraid to admit to his romantic views on relationships. I like a more sensitive type of man who can openly discuss his feelings with me without worrying about what others may think of him. I enjoy somebody who can carry on a good, interesting conversation and is dedicated to a special purpose or cause. A smart head on the shoulders can go a long way. I appreciate a man who can be sincere, respect me for who I am and who can take on another’s perspective go regard an issue from another point of view. He cannot be pretentious or two-faced and he should never forget where he came from (if he becomes successful in life), but instead appreciate his struggles along the way that enabled him to become who he is today. Last, but not least, I have found myself most attracted to men who love children and animals. I am not sure why this is, but I found that when a man can truly express delight and joy in the little creatures and persons in this world, they are oftentimes sweet and reliable people themselves.